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Author:  SciPhy [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  If inviting a girl to coffee for a first date

do i pay? does it matter? what should i be concerned with, really?

Author:  blazerfan [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 9:02 am ]
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coffee is dangerous, make sure to do some leg touching or something to not get friend zone. Also make fun of her/don't agree with everything she says. It may be hard to do but you will get friend zoned on a date like that since it is not very intimate. So need to develope some sexual tension by making fun of her.

Author:  phantomxrider [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 1:55 am ]
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alright dude, what you do is splash that coffee right in her face, and while she's stunned, you take advantage of her right there.

just kidding.
seriously, make her laugh. connect with her. use mysterious facial expressions, like a cocked eyebrow or a slight grin when saying something fitting. i know it sounds cliche, but if its meant to be, then you wont be stuck being friends.

Author:  KristallNachte [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 2:38 am ]
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coffee is all comfort...which makes it bad for legitimate dates

especially if you can't easily find shit to talk about


though it is a good guise for something more......devilish?

Author:  SciPhy [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:44 am ]
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it was for my friend, TheHire, who should have arranged a date with this hb7 a long time ago, but he's just learning the game, and maybe interacting with girls in general, so i didnt want to give him bum advice.

ya'll saved me from having to do so
thanks!

Author:  madals [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 2:34 pm ]
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Coffee is fine, just bounce to somewhere else if its goes good :)
Kino is a must and keep the "date" frame strong, your not getting coffee as friends, are you?

Author:  Zikki [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:44 pm ]
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yeah I think the worst day 2 I ever had was going for coffee. The idea behind it doesnt offend me, but coffee houses are not practicle places to PU. I met a girl who lives in a very rich area of london, who had owned her own business by the time she was 15 and generally was lookin for a intellectually sustainable partner. It was like an interview the whole time and the girl was for too rigid.

Since then I always avoid going to a cafe, altho they always welcome to come up to mine for coffee

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