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Author:  heyheysg [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Flirting and having conversations

Most of the time I guess you want to be in flirt mode with a girl you're interested in right? And preferably turn it off when talking to your buddy's girl etc.

So I was in a computer lab today, saw a girl I just met recently, IMed her from a few rows back

"Hey I'm at the lab now, there's a girl who looks just like you from behind"

pretty witty if I might add

So I asked her to turn around, she sees me and then WALKS OVER TO ME.

I was like 'holy shit!' that has never happened b4 (I'm a newbie)

Problem is I don't know how to flirt, I remain seated while she comes over and we talk about work(boring I know). I ask her what music she was listening to and get a "I dunno". I get lost here, didn't know how to transition or whatever I'm supposed to do and she went back to studying.

So Sticking points
1) Dunno how to flirt
2) I make boring conversations (work, school, job) and I don't know how to introduce interesting topics.

Author:  Saint Jimmy [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:47 pm ]
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Use somtimes:
"Oh that reminds me..."
It doesnt matter what you say, at least try to make it positive/interesting.
It can be a story, a random fact or an article from a newspaper.

But dont overthink it!

Author:  nobody [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:42 am ]
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HA! in college, when i get stuck, i like to use my chewing gum technique. Which consists of:
me:"hey *getting out gum of pocket* you want one?"
her: "yeah, sure"
me: "k *starting to give it to her* wait! you have to win it first!"
her: (interested) "how?"
me: "THUMB WARS!!"

then you juste play with her. u can cheat, its funny and she gets more talkative cuz you got somthing to talk after that, and its good for kino, and comfort :D

(this is all field tested, works like a charm)

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