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Author:  SciPhy [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:47 am ]
Post subject:  Phase shift retardation.
I went on my first sarge with two other friends who read the game with me.
After making two approaches this week, I have found myself with two numbers.

It appears I have a broken psychological transmission when it comes to the art of running game.
Judging whom to approach is pretty easy for me, and DHV, negging, and closing are come just as naturally.
Unfortunately, I'm like a pampered city dog that finally corners the alley cat in a dark corner. I just don't know what to do once I get the number, or get three IOIs.

I mean I know what Isolating the Target is, and I know what building attraction entails, but actually doing it feels like something alien--something that just manages to slip my mind when the time comes to implement technique.

What should I do after I have the numbers and the attention?
I tend to keep up the cocky and funny technique, but some etherial mental block keeps telling me "if you start getting sexual, you'll weird her out".
But when I just keep using technique that got me the number in the first place, things go downhill. Helpz?
Author:  Chief [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Phase shift retardation.
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mental block keeps telling me "if you start getting sexual, you'll weird her out".
Fix that. Go sexual from the start. If you don't address this sexual anxiety issue you're going to find yourself with a ton of big sticking points later on down the road.

You've only read "The Game?"

Well, welcome to our world, but know that there are a lot of different theories here, many of which contradict. :wink:

And, depending on your personal goals, some ARE actually more right than others. Just keep an open mind.
Author:  SciPhy [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Phase shift retardation.
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mental block keeps telling me "if you start getting sexual, you'll weird her out".
Fix that. Go sexual from the start. If you don't address this sexual anxiety issue you're going to find yourself with a ton of big sticking points later on down the road.

You've only read "The Game?"

Well, welcome to our world, but know that there are a lot of different theories here, many of which contradict. :wink:

And, depending on your personal goals, some ARE actually more right than others. Just keep an open mind.
You must know how much I'd love to do that, I'm just not sure how to go sexual properly, without "doing it wrong" and reducing attraction.
Author:  Cinnamon Spice [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 3:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Phase shift retardation.
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mental block keeps telling me "if you start getting sexual, you'll weird her out".
Fix that. Go sexual from the start. If you don't address this sexual anxiety issue you're going to find yourself with a ton of big sticking points later on down the road.

You've only read "The Game?"

Well, welcome to our world, but know that there are a lot of different theories here, many of which contradict. :wink:

And, depending on your personal goals, some ARE actually more right than others. Just keep an open mind.
You must know how much I'd love to do that, I'm just not sure how to go sexual properly, without "doing it wrong" and reducing attraction.
If you keep worrying aobut doing it 'wrong' you'll never realize that there is no 'right'.

the only wrong way of going about getting sexual is with a panting voice, a lot of 'erm..uh...um's or a way that feels unnatural for you.
Do it your way.

Cinnamon
Author:  Chief [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Phase shift retardation.
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Fix that. Go sexual from the start. If you don't address this sexual anxiety issue you're going to find yourself with a ton of big sticking points later on down the road.

You've only read "The Game?"

Well, welcome to our world, but know that there are a lot of different theories here, many of which contradict. :wink:

And, depending on your personal goals, some ARE actually more right than others. Just keep an open mind.
You must know how much I'd love to do that, I'm just not sure how to go sexual properly, without "doing it wrong" and reducing attraction.
If you keep worrying aobut doing it 'wrong' you'll never realize that there is no 'right'.

the only wrong way of going about getting sexual is with a panting voice, a lot of 'erm..uh...um's or a way that feels unnatural for you.
Do it your way.

Cinnamon
Yes. Every PUA-to-be MUST go through a lot of trial and error and MUST be willing to fall on his face a few times.

Or you can make things a little easier and check out my stickied thread in the Mid-Game section, "Sexual Attraction Explained In-depth."
Author:  Cinnamon Spice [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:15 am ]
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I vote for both. ^___^

Do as much as you can possibly do, read as much as you can read, and be prepared for failure and be ready to bounce back from it like one of those inflatable punching dolls.

Cinnamon
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