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| Author: | Sikk [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | A little problem that I have need help? |
Hey guys how's it going anyways I need help with an issue I'm having and that is that for some reason blonde girls intimidate me a little I mean any other girl that's not blonde doesn't at all I can relax with other girls but blondes I start getting nervous and quite. I want to date a blonde real badly any suggestions? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A little problem that I have need help? |
Quote: Hey guys how's it going anyways I need help with an issue I'm having and that is that for some reason blonde girls intimidate me a little I mean any other girl that's not blonde doesn't at all I can relax with other girls but blondes I start getting nervous and quite. I want to date a blonde real badly any suggestions?
To get past any sticking point really you have to first realize it. Come up with a plan to fix it. Then do the action.In this case I would tell you that each night you go out you approach mostly blondes. I would want you to make your first say 4 or 5 approaches a night on blonde girls regardless of the rating scale. The reason for this is the more you talk to them eventually you will become more comfortable. Start on this and tell yourself you're going to commit to it. Perhaps set a goal to approach a specific number of blonde women. You might give yourself a goal to approach 40 blonde girls and talk to them over the course of a month. Then at the end of the month see how you feel. This will get you past this hurdle. |
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| Author: | Sikk [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 2:58 pm ] |
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Thanks JSmooth Im going to go ahead and try this |
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| Author: | Axiomking [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:06 pm ] |
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Blondes have an effect on guys minds since there is a stereotype saying they are dumber than average women, because of this guys act dumber themselfs around them but if you have a certain thing you do with every other girl the urge to act stupider will mess you up. So just try to realize this next time you talk to a blonde and fight the urge. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:12 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks JSmooth Im going to go ahead and try this
You're welcome man. Just overcome it by getting more comfortable with it. Like I hated approaching large sets for the longest time. So I only allowed myself to open 4sets or bigger for a while, and it got to be easier for me over a short time period of focusing on it.
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