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| Author: | Pyromantic [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Two major kinks... |
Hey guys, Some of you may remember me from a couple years previous, I was a pickup artist who had Aspergers Syndrome (a form of social autism), and was working to overcome. So, after a few years of working on my health and other issues, I'm ready to pick up the game again, starting from scratch. I am being social, approaching, and generally in the confidence-building stages of my development currently, but I have a couple questions. There are two major kinks I run into with girls here in Utah: 1) I meet a girl in a situation where I cannot relocate her (work, et cetera), and later on, she doesn't respond my text messages or calls, as the case may be. I assume there must be some problem in the value-building stage of my game, but I can't figure out what it is. I come across strange and unsettling at first, because of my condition, and that may put them off. Any advice on how to properly build value or overcome this demolishing issue would be appreciated. 2) I scare people. I am very intense, and because of my social, nonverbal issues, I can be even more threatening. There are times I will be with a group of people, on top of the world, feeling like an alpha male, only to later find out I've done something to offend them or scare them away. I had this issue just the other day, where I built rapport with a girl, was friends with all the guys, and so on, at a house party. Anyway, the girl seemed to be enjoying my company, when all of a sudden she got a panic attack and I was asked to leave the party (I asked the other people what had caused it, but nobody could figure it out, and they all agreed I had connected with her pretty deeply for a first time) because she wasn't recovering and somehow it was related to my first impression. Odd situation, I know. For someone with Aspie problems, even more difficult, because I have no clue what I am doing wrong. And it is not just girls. It is my male friends as well. They are intimidated by me. |
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