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Author:	hamsterattack [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 6:34 am ]
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Hey, I'm pretty new to the community and I'm still getting a basic knowledge of the primary pua methods. I started out with mystery method, but lately i have been trying more direct approaches. Just a few hours ago I read through the entire Gunwitch website, and it really impressed me. But while reading it i had a realization about which i would love some feedback. Isn't the ideal pua someone who mixes and matches pu methods depending on the scenario? For example gunwitch might be super effective in gaming a "lone wolf" during the day in the right circumstances, but mystery method would be better for club scenes where girls are rarely alone. additionally, gunwitch seems to demand that you seal the deal the same day you meet the girl, but this has potential to be logistically problematic EVEN if the girl is horny enough. for example maybe a method more able to get a number and establish the necessary rapport for a 2nd meeting would be preferable for that circumstance. it has been suggested that different methods can contradict one another, but aren't they just multiple ways to skin a cat? is it possible to develop an inner game that allows for multiple/all methods of pickup? would this be as advantageous as i suggest or would it just be inefficient in the end? Thanks!

Author:	Cinnamon Spice [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 4:48 pm ]
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In short, Yes. All of you questions can be answered with yes. Not all methods will work for all people, but parts of some methods will. The best thing you can do is use a little bit of EVERY method possible. Then you've got your own style tailored to you specifically. Cinnamon

Author:	JSmooth [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 4:52 pm ]
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Excellent answer Cinnamon Spice. For example man here are just some of the people I borrow tidbits from and frequently use. Sinn Mehow Captain Jack El Topo Mystery Method Annihilation Method - Style David DeAngelo - Advanced Series / Cocky Funny J-Dog AFC Adam Gambler I have bits and pieces from each that fit my personality and work for me. I incorporate them into my own style of doing things. When you are starting out stick to one method and get good at it. Then slowly as you master it, then add on from others. If you read too much all at once it gets confusing!

Author:	kasabi [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 5:37 pm ]
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Agree with js. Unless you have a basic understanding of how one particular method works OR you have sarged with one particular method enough times to have seen the varied results you are likely to receive, go ONE AT A TIME for now. Meaning, open, routine, close text book style, one person at a time. For those of you who have mixed and matched your particular style, it's probably easy to recommend the "pick up buffet". However, I've seen too many guys (myself included) stumble through, trying to do accomplish 100 different things in one meeting. My experience is that it's true certain methods can contradict one another. Once you've figured out a few routines/styles/methods that work for you, then you'll be better able to gauge which aspects of a certain method will work for you in a particular situation. Meaning, you'll recognize quickly which direction an encounter is going and you'll be able to direct it as you see fit. Start off with one(method AND girl) that "really impresses" you and just go with it. Every method will obviously have its pros and cons so if you think hard enough, you'll discover its drawbacks. There are no "drawbacks" when her legs are split in a V for victory and you're sticking it deep. ALL styles can get you there. On another note . . . there is A LOT of complaining and whining about how certain methods suck on this forum. The kicker is that when they explain how they went about executing that method, it's CLEAR they haven't done it right. So what they're complaining about is some weird ass shit that they've come up with themselves. You're asking all the right questions.

Author:	JSmooth [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 6:17 pm ]
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Each method if you follow it to a "T" has its flaws in it. Some methods are better than each other for certain things. You just really have to pick one and tell yourself you are going to commit to it for several months to maybe even a year. Give yourself ample time to get good at it. The reason the Mystery Method is recommended so much is that Mystery himself has trained many of the guru's out there, or many of the guru's use some form of his original formula. That is why it's a good starting point for many people. First you have to decide what you want. And where you are going to be spending the majority of your time meeting people. A.) Relationship B.) Relationship and more friends C.) Lots of Lays D.) Other Once that is decided it'll be easier to pick the methods you want.

Author:	JSmooth [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 6:18 pm ]
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Each method if you follow it to a "T" has its flaws in it. Some methods are better than each other for certain things. You just really have to pick one and tell yourself you are going to commit to it for several months to maybe even a year. Give yourself ample time to get good at it. Thanks Kasabi. The reason the Mystery Method is recommended so much is that Mystery himself has trained many of the guru's out there, or many of the guru's use some form of his original formula. That is why it's a good starting point for many people. People bash the method all the time on the forum. Bottom line is guys like Mehow, Savoy, Sinn, Speer, and many many more great PUAs that have their own business now started with his basic structure. That speaks for itself in my opinion, but so did the results I got from it. First you have to decide what you want. And where you are going to be spending the majority of your time meeting people. A.) Relationship B.) Relationship and more friends C.) Lots of Lays D.) Other Once that is decided it'll be easier to pick the methods you want.

Author:	hamsterattack [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 2:25 am ]
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guys thanks a lot for the advice, ill be sure to follow it. when i sit and really consider what im looking for, the best i can come up with is: a way to meet lots of girls, and do with them whatever seems appropriate to the situation. in other words, i just want to meet a lot of girls... if they are really just good for a lay, then i would LOVE that. but if i meet a really special girl who is worth a relationship, i would be equally happy to go that way. i guess im looking for the method that gives the most freedom. any comments on this? thanks again!

Author:	kasabi [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 3:11 am ]
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For now, I'd say that it's a better idea to be focused on exactly what you want from each and one of your targets. No matter which style you choose, if you're not clear about your own goals, you will give them that same mixed message, "Well, you might be worth a lay . . . maybe a long term relationship . . .maybe just . . .well, I'd like to meet a lot of women . . ."

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