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| Author: | heyheysg [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | When should you eject? |
I've read about plowing on until she runs away, but I can't imagine myself doing that lol. Are you supposed to eject when, she says she has a boyfriend? or when the conversation dies down, body language is off, she stops giving iois and she doesn't restart the conversation? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:20 am ] |
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The key is to eject before things go bad. Let's say you are in a set and things are going pretty good. For example you know you're about to run out of material which is going to make it awkward. Rather than let that happen while things are still descent you eject, this demonstrates "non-neediness" and helps build attraction. Now the idea here is that when you re-open when you have a game plan again. They'll be more receptive since you've already opened them. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 3:12 pm ] |
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Like JSmooth said, eject or end it on a high note...keep them wanting more. Don't wait for things to go stale... |
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| Author: | shiva420 [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 5:35 pm ] |
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Quote: The key is to eject before things go bad. Let's say you are in a set and things are going pretty good. For example you know you're about to run out of material which is going to make it awkward. Rather than let that happen while things are still descent you eject, this demonstrates "non-neediness" and helps build attraction.
I've done this and my problem is the re-opening. Nine out of ten times I cant come up with any kind of plan so I just re-enter without plan and mess things up. Is this just because of my lack of experience?
Now the idea here is that when you re-open when you have a game plan again. They'll be more receptive since you've already opened them. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 11:27 pm ] |
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Quote: I've done this and my problem is the re-opening. Nine out of ten times I cant come up with any kind of plan so I just re-enter without plan and mess things up. Is this just because of my lack of experience?
The idea is to re-enter and then pick it back up where you left off in attraction, or comfort. You don't need a fancy opener when you go back in just a simple "hey" will do at that point. Qualify then basically move it to the next step of the interaction. The point is constantly knowing exactly where you are at and who needs what. The more time you spend in field the more this develops to being somewhat subconcious.
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