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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 5:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help FAST!!!! HB wanting to go out with me but unsure
So, this HB I've been talking for a while.

She was from my school and recently I decided to online game her and then set up a meeting.
The problem is that she was always busy and never met me.

Now I gave her a last chance (I don't want a virtual friend anyway): I texted her saying "We're hanging out this week or I'll delete your number from my phone and your MSN.".

And she said "Ok. I'll think about something."

And then she came up with "Do you have friends that like to go out?" and I said "Yeah... why?".
And she said "We could go out everybody and do something... because if we go only us 2 it will look like a meeting for a romantic comedy movie.".

Then I replied with:
"Well.. you don't have to worry about that. We'll never get along. We're too much similar."
and then:
"I don't know if I can call them now. I've went out with them recently, they'll probably not hang out with me these days.".

And then she said "Ok. I'll think about something."



Now I need to come up with something FAST and gain control back.
She's obviously putting me in the friend zone, but I don't care. If I get her to meet me I can revert it.

But I need advice. What would be a good way to call her now and just set up something me and her?
I thought about letting her call her (girl) friend, but not sure if it would be good idea.
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 6:04 pm ]
Post subject: 
man you have been overly harsh all the way through this, also I think you may have been friend zoned (the major flaw of online game). You also DLV'd in a big way with the friends comment, however it can be saved.

I think your best bet is to say something along the lines of "I've gotta grab a few bits from the shops this weekend, we should grab a coffee or something."

Its simple and low investment so you can hangout with her with no pressure (so she will leave the friends at home) and then get on to running game in person.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 6:17 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks!

That's good idea man! And she loves coffe. I guess if I say it with no pressure she'll probably go, then I'll try gaming all from the start.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 6:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
Nice!

We'll eat hot dog here near our house (she lives near me) tomorrow and also we'll gonna watch a movie with her (girl) friends on saturday. (her suggestion... I tried the coffee).

This is great because if I don't k-close tomorrow I can still k-close her on saturday or game her friends. :lol: :lol: :lol:
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