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| Author: | malvado [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:42 am ] |
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Just wanted to see if anyone had any good canned material. i know situational stuff, and direct approaches can work insanely well. I like the one that goes. "hey, you have a really cool vibe about you and i had to come say hi." It's good because you are not complimenting on their physical appearance. But anyway, i would love to hear if anyone has some good field tested day game canned material. Since im so busy even on weekends, i would love to shift my gaming to focus on day game, since my day does consist of going to a store, restaurant, coffee shop... Make this thread long and full of great material. |
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:03 am ] |
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Canned material is canned. It sounds rehersed. Go with the flow. Enjoy the comfortable silence. Hell blame it on them if you have to. |
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| Author: | Lion Cub [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:13 pm ] |
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Hello, malvado. During the day time I use a technique which I call soft dilation. You simply open her with the most justified thing you can say to a random person in the day which is to ask the time. I suspect that going up to a girl and saying "HEY, You have a cool vibe," will be a bit nerve racking to you if you're a newbie. So here's what I do: Me: Hey, Do you know what time it is? Her: 3:00 Me: Cool. Thanks! And also, do you know what date it is? (this usually stumps them and gets them thinking. It's purpose is to stop them in their tracks and commit them to the coming conversation.) Her: the 13th, I think. Me: Cool, I'm shopping for my friend's birthday, she'll be about the same age as you I think? Chocolate, big Teddy Bear, shopping vouchers? What would you suggest i get her? Her: Uh, Chocolate. You: Ah, it's funny you should say Chocolate! I can't speak for long because I have to meet someone, but me and my friend where having a discussion the other day on whether women prefer chocolate or shopping better? What do you think? Her: Blah Blah Blah! You: I was thinking about writing an article on it, you see. I like your accent! Are you from France or somewhere? (you can ask this question even if she doesn't sound foreign.) Her: No. I'm from around here. Do you think I sound foreign? You: Yeah, Kinda. Where do you think I'm from? (The last few questions aim to personalise the conversation. Once the conversation becomes personal, that's when the comfort stage begins.) |
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| Author: | Lion Cub [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:24 pm ] |
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Also, don't be afraid to stack routines like you would do in the night game. Gay shirt, who lies more, etc, People say you should be spontaneous during the day game, but I think that's bad advice if you're not a good conversationalist. You must be able to generate conversation with her by supplying material and the best way to do that is through routines, IMO. However, only rely on routines if natural conversation has run dry. |
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| Author: | heyheysg [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:20 am ] |
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hey what about kino during day time? I heard that it needs to be toned down way more, but I'm not sure exactly how to do it on the street or in a classroom |
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| Author: | Rene [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:41 am ] |
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Asking about accent seems to work, yet it's one of the most unoriginal and common openers. This is something EVERY SINGLE GUY will ask, and he no needs to know anything about pick up. I used to do it many times before I joined community. Use it, it works, but remember that she heard that probably billion times so far, you are the billion first. |
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| Author: | Lion Cub [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 3:36 pm ] |
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Quote: hey what about kino during day time?
Aim to touch her about three times. If you're having a fun conversation with her and you've generated a nice vibe, then she probably won't feel uncomfortable about being touched casually on the arm. She will probably think you do it to everyone and is just your confident self. Just don't go over the top... I heard that it needs to be toned down way more, but I'm not sure exactly how to do it on the street or in a classroom Also, You can achieve kino with things like HIGH FIVES and handshakes. For example, leading off from the Example in my last post: Me: I like your accent! Are you from France or somewhere? Her: No. I'm from around here. Do you think I sound foreign? You: Yeah, Kinda. Where do you think I'm from? Her: England? Me: Yeah. HIGH FIVE. Her: Are you really from England? Me: Yeah! But I use to live in Spain.. They're quite cool over there, they have a really interesting way of shaking hands! Let me show you. (at this point, she presents her hand and you shake it in an unusual way.) Also, If you make her laugh then casually touch her arm. Also, I suggest approaching women in stores and supermarkets rather than the street. Personally, I'm not very effective at stopping women in the street. opening a stationary set is much easier and usually results more successfully. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 3:54 pm ] |
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Hello, I am a non-creative moron who could care less enough about you so I will repeat something I read on the Internet in order to obtain your phone number so I can take you out for ice cream and there after slide on a condom and fuck you missionary style for 2 minutes until I orgasm and maybe I'll let you know if you have a c mouth or a u mouth because the cube tells me that you are a boring fucking piece of meat. . . . now . . . Kino! Kino! Kino! Touch her elbow! You did it! Is it really so tough to take one look at her and tell her something about the "here and now"? |
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| Author: | Mr.Two-Wrongs [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 4:47 pm ] |
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Quote: Hello, I am a non-creative moron who could care less enough about you so I will repeat something I read on the Internet in order to obtain your phone number so I can take you out for ice cream and there after slide on a condom and fuck you missionary style for 2 minutes until I orgasm and maybe I'll let you know if you have a c mouth or a u mouth because the cube tells me that you are a boring fucking piece of meat. . . . now . . .
Oh come one kasabi, you had to have used canned material at some point, and besides, canned material is a great learning tool! so don't bash the learners, they'll get it soon enough
Kino! Kino! Kino! Touch her elbow! You did it! Is it really so tough to take one look at her and tell her something about the "here and now"? |
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| Author: | Lion Cub [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 9:37 pm ] |
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I agree with Mr.Two-Wrongs. Canned Material is important so you can generate conversation. I find it ridiculous that people are turning against canned material. Trying to be spontaneous and witty is difficult when you're nervous. Canned Material gives you a crutch and a sense of control which is vital for conveying confidence and value. For newbies who request help, it's important that they aren't given the impression that canned material is bad. If they have to be spontaneous and creative in a situation where they are nervous, they are going to fail and develop bad feelings which could inhibit them in the future. People might think that Mystery and the like have weened themselves off canned material, but I think they still use it in a more subtle and intricate sort of way. |
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| Author: | Lion Cub [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 9:40 pm ] |
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And also, canned material and negs are simply used to create attraction, they don't have to dominate your entire relationship. Once you've got her comfortable and talking, you can allow your normal personality to emerge. |
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