PUA Forum :: Confused about difference between being alpha and a jerk

I bumped into a HB carrying a huge bag, I said 'sorry' and facepalmed 2 mins later. So in this case supplication is DLV, because she bumped into me. How should I have done it?

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"Hey! Watch where you're going!"

Say what you want to say, not what you think you should say.

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Met with a career coach from school, that person treated me like some high schooler who was indebted to her for turning up even though I paid for that damn session. I thought about not taking shit and started pointing out what was wrong with her behavior. Basically no way to turn it ard.

A career coach? In college? "So how are YOU going to help ME succeed? Hmm?"

Make the woman work for her $$$.

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The winner from PUA2, he had an opener where an AMOG said "f*** off" immediately...

Author:	heyheysg [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 6:33 am ]
Post subject:	Confused about difference between being alpha and a jerk
So the community is always going on about being alpha and negging and stuff. I'm a bit lost as I only recently encountered these problems. So whats the difference between negging, cocky/funny, teasing, not supplicating, shit tests, not accepting/punishing bad behavior and being a jackass. Egs, I bumped into a HB carrying a huge bag, I said 'sorry' and facepalmed 2 mins later. So in this case supplication is DLV, because she bumped into me. How should I have done it? Met with a career coach from school, that person treated me like some high schooler who was indebted to her for turning up even though I paid for that damn session. I thought about not taking shit and started pointing out what was wrong with her behavior. Basically no way to turn it ard. The winner from PUA2, he had an opener where an AMOG said "f*** off" immediately, what is the correct reaction from the PUA and the reaction inside the group to the AMOG? Do they still like him because he is alpha?

Author:	Jaybot [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:36 am ]
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Being alpha isn't about negging and c/f, in my opinion. I think it's more about being a man who can confidently carry himself and is a leader of men. I also think it is about being able to show emotion but be in control of it. You should get this book, (http://www.amazon.com/Shambhala-Sacred- ... 0877732647) it teaches you how to be alpha in the way that I see it.

Author:	Charlie0 [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:09 am ]
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Quote: I bumped into a HB carrying a huge bag, I said 'sorry' and facepalmed 2 mins later. So in this case supplication is DLV, because she bumped into me. How should I have done it? Quote: "Hey! Watch where you're going!" Say what you want to say, not what you think you should say. Quote: Met with a career coach from school, that person treated me like some high schooler who was indebted to her for turning up even though I paid for that damn session. I thought about not taking shit and started pointing out what was wrong with her behavior. Basically no way to turn it ard. A career coach? In college? "So how are YOU going to help ME succeed? Hmm?" Make the woman work for her $$$. Quote: The winner from PUA2, he had an opener where an AMOG said "f*** off" immediately... Probably a jealous BF. Doesn't matter. Don't lose your frame. Smile, nod knowingly, and back off, but get some more eye contact from the target! If they're 'begging' eyes, come back when he's in the john - better yet, motion for her to come see you for a second. If they're 'GTFO' eyes, I'd steer clear.

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