thanks guys
super helpful
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| Author: | hollywoodd [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | attraction phase |
okay so i am still not too sure how long the attraction phase usually goes like i know to wait to get a certain amount of IOIs but i dont know really what to do or say or whatever like wut other openers are there besides opinion openers i kinda just need like a quick example overview of getting a girl attracted.. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: attraction phase |
Quote: okay so i am still not too sure how long the attraction phase usually goes
A1- Opening last seconds to a minute or so.like i know to wait to get a certain amount of IOIs but i dont know really what to do or say or whatever like wut other openers are there besides opinion openers i kinda just need like a quick example overview of getting a girl attracted.. A2 - Female to Male Attraction Phase. This is the part where you neg, DHV, show disinterest, watching for IOIs, and befriend the obstacles lasts about 5 minutes. A3 - Male to Female Interest. Slowly showing interest back to the target takes about another 5-10 minutes. So in total most of the time under 20 minutes. Each situation is different through. As far as openers go, there is a whole section on the forum of openers. Some are opinion, with kino, direct, situational, etc. If you don't know what to say or do sounds like you need to create a routine stack or work on general conversation skills. Many of us have to do this at first. Overview example. You might want to check out some field reports or Lay Reports and possible read up on the Venusian Arts Handbook. It differs but the method is basically the same. Hope it helps out. When in doubt search for some of this stuff. Many of these questiosn are asked on a weekly if not daily basis. The forum is pretty organized for the most part. |
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 8:17 pm ] |
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I dont go by steps or time limits....it is what it is....life is not black nor is it white. Its to have guide lines but do you want to become a natural or an AFC dressed up as a natural? I would say 99% of the guys in here are never going to be naturals because they work to much with a crutch. IMO once you have built up attraction you need take action and move in for the kill....kiss her, take her out, and close the deal. It can take a night or a week every women is diffrent....but If she is giving you IOI's and you feel she is into then be the alpha...ask her out. Most of being a natural comes down to being confident....use negs, use kino ect....but dont be your self! Dont over think any thing just do it. |
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 8:20 pm ] |
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Sorry I mean *be your self. haha |
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| Author: | hollywoodd [ Wed Mar 11, 2009 8:30 am ] |
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thanks guys super helpful
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