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Author:  Fu$$ [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Other guys starts to see me as a problem.
Man, Im in trouble...

So, since i've began my transformation into a PUA, I've discovered how it could be hard, it's about change me in a whole, not just clothes or looks, but since voice tonality or body language to inner psychological aspects of my true self. Even if it was just that are too much for me.
But now, im really confused, because i've perceived that some of my closest friends now look to me as a real competitor, some guys start to hate me and to discredit me... Dude, Im really dont know how should I solve that problem, I hate when guys invent nicks to my girls, or difames me just to keep me far away from ladies! I really dont care bout their opinion bout me, but I cant simply ignore the results of their actions.

I just want em out of my life, but I cant compete with all of the bastard that cruise my way.

Thanks.


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Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 4:24 am ]
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if people are talking about you, you know you're doing something right

"Love me or Hate me, it's still an obsession"

"I don't care just what you think, as long as it's about me"
Author:  Kalel [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 4:41 am ]
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This is just temporary. Your male friends were accustomed to the old you, and people don't like change. If they're real friends they will get used to the new you, if not they will naturally drift off and you'll make new friends.
I know this seems a little callous, but some people are pathological narcissists and they only spend time with people weaker than them so they can feel stronger. When you get stronger they can't deal with it, but its better not to have these kinds of people in your life.
Author:  Rhum [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 10:29 am ]
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You are developing a new frame that they are not use to. You have to let them adjust to your new image and personality and if they don't then they will eventually screw themselves for losing someone who wants to achieve greatness.

You have nothing to worry about. Kalel is right because people will naturally come and go just like how woman will naturally go to your bedroom and leave sooner or later.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:09 am ]
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Damn, you're right! But its hard to left and sacrifice some of the best things in my old life.

Life's a bitch.

Thanks for the attention.
Author:  DontBeFickle [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:25 am ]
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man it sucks when your friends do that. one of my best friends saw me tear kids up in a dance off at a pretty big party, everyone said i won. BUT for some reason he sorta defamed me as you say, and made it seem like i lost. which i dont care its just odd for him to act like that.I think hes used to being the "cool one" and when he sees people rising parallel or above him he has to cut them down a peg.

i was just thinking this today actually :S
Author:  Wolfus [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 2:13 am ]
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Don't worry about it. Guys constantly shit test as well, to establish their dominance within the group.

If you've known them a long time, they'll probably see the old you as having less value than you currently do. All they're doing is trying to establish where to draw the new line's. How far you'll let them push, and how well you stand up for your values and idea's.

It's pretty much all just the bare bones of PUA. Not surprising since it's based on human behaviour.

In fact this literally happened to me earlier. Morning after a party, not slept. Another alpha of the group's in the kitchen.

Me: Who want's a cuppa?
Alpha: Sure. Tax not making it. (SHIT TEST)
Another guy: Tax not making it
Me: I'm clearly already making it. (Qualify myself - failure)
Alpha: That was the joke ;) (Neg)

Luckily i'm not that much of a AFC when i'm fully rested. But really, don't worry about it. Just as girls periodically shit test for congruence, guys do too.

Wolfus
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