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Author:  Harleystcool [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 2:48 am ]
Post subject:  Is this creepy or bold?
Alright, i was in BK last week with a friend, i got served by this cute girl and i ate, but before i left i told my friend i'll be right out, and i walked to the girl, looked her dead in the eyes and said, " hi i think your really cute, and if i don't say something now, i prob won't see you again" with a genuine belief. She broke into a smile, she seemed to stumble for a paper, i mean there were 5 around her, but she just printed one off after 2 secs of akward looking around. Of course i made a mistake and asked her name on facebook, so now i sent her a msg to go someplace, and she said, " sorry! i have school friday and work sat". Now i'm not new to the game, i'm loaded with theiores, but not to great in the real world. I believe its sending me information, information i need to spend more comfort, or show her a better approach, cause a poor action will give me a poor result.

So ii was thinking of going back to the bk where she works, just a casual how you doing, something gentlemen like, and doing that for awhile ( couple of days ) i don't mind it, it'll be like an adventure, or rocky ( you know in rocky part one, he drops by the pet store to see the girl ), is this creepy or bold?
Author:  Sheer Con [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 2:58 am ]
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Well if she ends up as your waitress again then you're all set. But if she doesn't r u prepared to seek her out at the restaurant? anyways ya u have do drop by tho if u want to build any kind of comfort so she won't flake. Whether its creepy or bold is all going to be in your delivery (ie. body language and tone). The act of going there wouldn't really be considered creepy. Anyways what you probably should have done was build comfort. you make it sound like you just direct opened her then went for her facebook. anyways best of luck on you're stopping by her work.
Author:  Harleystcool [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:00 am ]
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Well if she ends up as your waitress again then you're all set. But if she doesn't r u prepared to seek her out at the restaurant? anyways ya u have do drop by tho if u want to build any kind of comfort so she won't flake. Whether its creepy or bold is all going to be in your delivery (ie. body language and tone). The act of going there wouldn't really be considered creepy. Anyways what you probably should have done was build comfort. you make it sound like you just direct opened her then went for her facebook. anyways best of luck on you're stopping by her work.
your advice sounds like someone who knows what hes talking about, good stuff
Author:  malvado [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 10:11 am ]
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Like the other guy said, the creppy will depend on what you say and how you say it. Now, when you go back you need to be loaded with material for a lot of possible questions or scenarios. If she is working, you need to greet her with a nice friendly (noncreepy) hi! with a very polite smile. Now, you can try to make small talk "how's your day going stuff, but be ready to be able to continue the convesation. look for things that might keep the convesation going, then be able to stack (but you need to keep in mind that she is working). Also you could write some material that will work. Write material that sounds situational or relates to what is going on. Maybe ask her, how many burgers she's stolen today. coming up with something is your job. just make sure you're being c+f, have replies for shit tests. If after this she does not want to meet you for coffee or something, fuck her, she's just fast food worker (not that there's anything wrong with that though).
Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 5:33 pm ]
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Right. Tbh yeah you could have done a better opener and at least got her number but WHO GIVES A FUCK. You did REALLY well just going up to her, god you even did what most guys wouldn't dream about. Use that as your stepping stone to bigger and better and GREATER things.

Well the way I would look at this is that this girl is nothing really special as you can now approach any other girl ;)

In my opinion no its not creepy to do this, only your intentions are creepy.. by that I mean if your thinking in your head 'I want to rape her' then I would sit this little adventure out hahaa, but if your genuinly interested in getting to know her then bear this in mind and it will show in your body language and tonality.

Take it easy ;) Totti 8)
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