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Author:  Hush Now [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  gift or get it back?
First post :shock: Prob ultra noob Q but appreciate any advice given.

Ok so the other night this chick was talking to me practically the entire time I was at the club. We hit the d-floor for a while and she grinded me which was nice. She said she wanted to go so I walked her home at which point all I got was a goodbye hug (which I had instigate). I wasn't looking to fuck her but I was rattled that I didn't even get a goodnight kiss on the cheek.

Anyway when I was at the bar I managed to score a highly sort after promo shirt. Asked the girl if she could keep it in her handbag for me and "forgot" to ask for it back. I spoke to her briefly since and she asked me to come get the shirt asap before she loses it. I sent her a message to ask what was a good time and got this reply:

re: shirt ur lucky, coz I put it on earlier when I got cold and decided to keep it lol, but I suppose I'll give it back :(

Dunno if it makes a difference either way but do I let her keep it or go and get it? Keep pursuing despite cold end to night or give up and move on? Thanks.
Author:  Fin [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: gift or get it back?
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First post :shock: Prob ultra noob Q but appreciate any advice given.

Ok so the other night this chick was talking to me practically the entire time I was at the club. We hit the d-floor for a while and she grinded me which was nice. She said she wanted to go so I walked her home at which point all I got was a goodbye hug (which I had instigate). I wasn't looking to fuck her but I was rattled that I didn't even get a goodnight kiss on the cheek.

Anyway when I was at the bar I managed to score a highly sort after promo shirt. Asked the girl if she could keep it in her handbag for me and "forgot" to ask for it back. I spoke to her briefly since and she asked me to come get the shirt asap before she loses it. I sent her a message to ask what was a good time and got this reply:

re: shirt ur lucky, coz I put it on earlier when I got cold and decided to keep it lol, but I suppose I'll give it back :(

Dunno if it makes a difference either way but do I let her keep it or go and get it? Keep pursuing despite cold end to night or give up and move on? Thanks.
Keep pursuing, women like being chased, her joke about not giving it back is her teasing you.

She'd probably appreciate it if you went to get it, so that you can spend some more time together.

That sound right to you man?
Author:  Hush Now [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:47 pm ]
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Well yeah the whole point of me "forgetting" it was so I'd have an excuse to go around later. On the other hand, if she likes the shirt it will be a good reminder of me?
Author:  Fin [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 3:41 pm ]
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Well yeah the whole point of me "forgetting" it was so I'd have an excuse to go around later. On the other hand, if she likes the shirt it will be a good reminder of me?
Theirs plenty of other ways se would remember you, you seem to be acting like you'll never see her again?
You could turn up and deliberatly forget to take the shirt home when you leave, over time you could develop and inside story or joke.

Would make an awesome connection (Y)
Author:  Hush Now [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:41 am ]
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Wow, didn't get to do anything with shirt at all. She rang me and said she was home now if I wanted to come over and get it. I said "Ok, I'll come over in around 10mins".

Just as I'm leaving she walks through the entrance and says "hey~" and throws the t shirt at me. I get in one line and shes gone again :?

The thing is she rang me when she could have sent me a message on fb (we were both online), so I think that was a subtle way of giving me her number. I dunno wtf is going on though.
Author:  Fin [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 9:00 pm ]
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Wow, didn't get to do anything with shirt at all. She rang me and said she was home now if I wanted to come over and get it. I said "Ok, I'll come over in around 10mins".

Just as I'm leaving she walks through the entrance and says "hey~" and throws the t shirt at me. I get in one line and shes gone again :?

The thing is she rang me when she could have sent me a message on fb (we were both online), so I think that was a subtle way of giving me her number. I dunno wtf is going on though.
I have to say that is fucking confusing, what was her BL like.. or her tone on the phone.

Normally if she was interested she would leave a window for you to spark conversation etc......

You did conform to her hoop but I can't see it having an effect in which it would kill the attraction on that level.

Best advice now would be. Ride with it and feel it out until you have a clearer picture on wtf is going on :lol:
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