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Author:  skoalbrutha [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 9:35 am ]
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Ok, so ill put a long story short, havent talked to a girl for a while, she sends me a message so i text gamed her for a few days over the weekend and had her come over to my place for movies tonight. she was really flirty and into me over the phone, but once she got here she seemed very shy and completely the opposite of how she is on the phone, she ended up just falling asleep next to me during the movie. Im not sure how i am supposed to escalate this next time it happens. like we will lay on the bed, throw in a movie and its almost like she freezes me out. any help will be greatly appreciated, thnx

Author:  Charlie0 [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 10:19 am ]
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Proper kino escalation should fix it.

Remember, two steps forward, one step back.

Author:  Ray Charles [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 11:55 am ]
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im not really going to say much.

im just giving a second opinion and agree with kino escalation

Author:  SiNfUl [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 5:22 pm ]
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Some people are more confident behind the phone (which is why I despise long or drawn out text messages and phone calls), so you can't properly gauge a person until they are in front of you.

If she fell asleep, she was either tired or bored. Instead of inviting her over for a movie, suggest doing something FUN, an activity that she has to participate in.

Author:  Pool Shark [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 7:45 pm ]
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Yup sinful said what I was going to say.

You should try something where she won't freeze you out, and has to interact with you. There you kino escalate and invite her over for the movie after the activity.

Author:  skoalbrutha [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 9:03 pm ]
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alright, ill try it out and let you guys know how it goes, thnx for the advice

Author:  chri$ [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:24 am ]
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Maybe there is a LARGE detail here that I missed... but... she is in YOUR BED... close the deal man. If she is comfortable enough to be in your bed (especially asleep) she is comfortable enough to have sex with you. I've never had a chick in my bed without her legs in the air... Heres some examples of what I do: Oh... yeah... theres One major rule if your getting in my bed... NO JEANS (or pants)! explanation: jeans are dirty, my bed is clean... If she isnt cool with that, she can sit on an uncomfortable chair until she is ready to comply. Or... just start making out with her, rub your legs on hers... stop completely (look away).... when she says whats wrong? say... your jeans are kind of uncomfortable. Theres a million and a half ways to escalate this situation... Once her jeans are off, it wont be long until you get where your trying to go. All of this stuff works for me, these are things I used before I learned the PUA lifestyle... and they still work. good luck...

Author:  Ray Charles [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 1:03 pm ]
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Maybe there is a LARGE detail here that I missed... but... she is in YOUR BED... close the deal man. If she is comfortable enough to be in your bed (especially asleep) she is comfortable enough to have sex with you. I've never had a chick in my bed without her legs in the air... Heres some examples of what I do: Oh... yeah... theres One major rule if your getting in my bed... NO JEANS (or pants)! explanation: jeans are dirty, my bed is clean... If she isnt cool with that, she can sit on an uncomfortable chair until she is ready to comply. Or... just start making out with her, rub your legs on hers... stop completely (look away).... when she says whats wrong? say... your jeans are kind of uncomfortable. Theres a million and a half ways to escalate this situation... Once her jeans are off, it wont be long until you get where your trying to go. All of this stuff works for me, these are things I used before I learned the PUA lifestyle... and they still work. good luck...
Holy shit thats genious. Props to you, im so using that.

Author:  kasabi [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 1:27 pm ]
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How can a girl freeze out a "non-advance"?

Chris is right with his advice. The girl didn't freeze you out, she fell asleep while waiting for you to fuck her.

Author:  Ray Charles [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 1:46 pm ]
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How can a girl freeze out a "non-advance"?

Chris is right with his advice. The girl didn't freeze you out, she fell asleep while waiting for you to fuck her.

Dont feel bad though, just make sure you do it next time. xD

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