Oh sorry, i diddent really pay attention to the grammar. English is not my first language, but i can actually do a spell check in the future. Thank you for the advice!
meeting her again today
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| Author: | Andcol [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 10:44 am ] |
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not totally sure about where to post, so ill try it here. ultimetly it worked out great, me and a mate were drowning some beers at a club, when a girl approched us. she looked pretty good and fetched my interest., i was self contious about the game(for the first time), and delivered some great "soft" negs and was able to get her to prove herelf to me, she also threw a few ioi's anyways to my question. ; two more girls came out of the blue and sat on either side of me, they diddent know any of us, and this got to have raised my value through the roof. but now i was in a fiveset, witch scared me a bit, since i now got very uncertan how to play on, anyways, i gave them some attention, so i could make my target "fight" for my attention, witch worked great, until the girls went out for a smoke, and sayd they would come back, witch they diddent. i was acting very non-chalant about it but i was wondering how bad of a value hit that was? or am i overanalyzing again? |
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| Author: | Acetyl [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:00 pm ] |
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If you were honestly the centre of attention of 5 girls on your first night out sarging then hats off to you. If they didn't come back they weren't going for a cigarette they were polietly excusing themselves; your best chance would've been to keep them all entertained with some kind of DHV, and then ask if you can borrow the target for a moment and that you'll have her back in a min, then go for a close. Saying this is one thing, and it all looks clear and full proof in writing, but it's a different story in real life. I havn't been in the game that long myself, and even if I get talking to a girl I never feel like she would approve of me escalating or separating her from her friends. Maybe someone else will give you a more indepth answer, work on your spelling and grammar though if you want to be taken more seriously. |
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| Author: | Andcol [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 2:33 pm ] |
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Oh sorry, i diddent really pay attention to the grammar. English is not my first language, but i can actually do a spell check in the future. Thank you for the advice! meeting her again today
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 2:51 pm ] |
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You got your second meeting with your initial girl. You're all set. The other two that followed obviously felt the "connection" between you two and went fishing else where. You played it 100% well. You leveraged the 2nd set of girls to get it going ON with your first one. Girls are so competitive that it's very difficult to get more than 2 going at the same time. Had you genuinely demonstrated attraction to the second girls, the first girl would have "gone out for a smoke". Can you game all three? Well, it depends on how you define "game". You can isolate one at a time and make out with them, grind them, have your way with them . . . but if you want a deeper connection, you have to concentrate on one . . . at least for that particular night. In the end, girls want to feel special . . . not 1/3 of a pie . . . |
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| Author: | Andcol [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 3:06 pm ] |
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been prepairing for a week now before actually starting the game. I expected the whole thing to be a thinking, analyzing marathon, but it was just plain fun! Over to another thing that bothered me, is that i lied about going to college to show some value. If i want to start a relationship, that might be an issue, but i guess i can just continue gaming her and start worrying about that later I will get some updates going after tonight! and i will continue to look over so i dont have loads of excessive spelling mistakes. Thank you. |
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| Author: | Andcol [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 12:44 am ] |
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Well tonight diddn't go too well to be honest. There is a strong connection, i could have easly kiss closed, and even more at any point through the night. But i was trapped in a two-set the entire night. her friend had to be around 24\7, witch sucked. i used it to my advantage though, by throwing some soft negs and make her compete for my attention again, but my game was not as smooth this time as the previous night. stuck in a two set with no wingman to help, for the entire night, ruined me. I'm going to ask her out on a date next weekend though. so she knows my intention. rather go on a beat-down now than to be trapped in a friend zone. (I don't think i have to be afraid of the friend zone now anyways, was a lot of kino going on this night) I would like to appoligize in advance for any spelling mistakes. Sorry double post... |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 2:34 am ] |
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You've already hooked her. Take it easy with negs of any kind . . . especially around potential cock blocks like her friend. You go to the bathroom and she goes to your girl, "What's up his ass? Why is he making fun of you all the time??" Read the following out loud to yourself: Quote:
"I have balls. I am a man. She is a girl."
Start dictating your SHIT now! You don't "ask" a girl to do something. You plan everything out and you order her around like a little monkey. Girls(younger ones) will often say something like, "Can I bring my friend?"You go, "I'd rather take you to ______ alone." If she continues to pull that crap, you go, "Well, I'll call you another time when you don't need to baby sit your friends. Maybe next week?" Then you REALLY don't call her until next week (bad behavior deserves punishment) And don't worry, once you do this once she will never ask if she can bring along a friend again. |
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| Author: | Andcol [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 11:40 pm ] |
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I shouldn't have lied about college though hehe. I will not be sorry for it, but need to sneak it in somehow, before it turns into a major thing, and she gets the upper hand. Any tips? "i thought you looked like a classy lady, so i had to put up a classy guard" or just tell her up front and see her reaction and play along? dug myself a nice grave here. How do i keep from falling in? I'm acually to a private high-school to get some better grades But i told her i was already going to the school of engineering. Thank you so much, all of you for your great advice and help. Thank you! Edit: when there was goodbye time when we last met, she told me (with her friend out of hearing range) "sorry, i promised a girls night out) so i guess i pretty much have her in my hands  its awesome, never had a feeling like this before |
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| Author: | l0ck [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 1:54 am ] |
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That would be an IOD, you did something wrong in the set... It happens my friend... I must say you did very well for your first night out.. |
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| Author: | Andcol [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 2:49 am ] |
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damn. youre right! and i saw it as an ioi as the stupid AFC. damn. hmm, she stayed for long even though her friend tried to drag us away. I think i failed in DHV, this night. |
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