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Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 3:56 am ]
Post subject:  Interpreting Body Language
INTERPRETING BODY LANGUAGE


Let's start with YOUR'S first:


Use this body language:
- Walk briskly.
- Hold head up.
- Hold shoulders upright.
- Keep posture erect.
- Make firm handshakes.
- Hold steady eye contact.
- Open arms/palms.
- Plant both feet on the floor.

Do not use these:
- Dragging feet = implies weak, un-energetic = unlikely to impress.
- Head down = suggest timidity, again not a positive impression.
- Shoulders drooped = could imply weak, un-energetic and weariness.
- Slovenly posture = implies the candidate is unfit for the post.
- Weak handshake = implies meek and ineffectual personality.
- Shifty eyes = suggests nervousness.
- Arms crossed on chest = suggests a defensive stance.
- Fidgeting = implies nervousness.
- Hands in pockets = implies you have something to hide.


Signs that she's interested in you.

Hair:
- Pushes her fingers through her hair. (One hand or stroking).
- Twirls hair around fingers while looking at you.
- Throwing hair back off of shoulders.

Seated:
- Moves in tune with the music looking at you.
- Sits straight up and muscles appear firm.
- Sits with legs open.
- Sits with legs crossed and showing you her thigh.
- Legs rubbing against leg of table.
- Crossed leg points toward you or the same leg rocks back and forth towards you.

Eyes:
- Dilated pupils (big) = interested. (When it's dark outside/in, her pupils will be big anyways.
If it's sunny/bright and her pupils are big, she's interested).

- Contracted pupils (small) = not interested. (Sunny/bright her pupils will be small anyways.
So if it's bright and her pupils are small, she's not interested, but if it's bright and her pupils are big, she's interested).

- Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.

- While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.

Lips:
- Big smiles, upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
- Biting lips or showing tongue, licking lips or touching front teeth.
- Wets her lips, upper or lower.
- Puts fingernail between teeth.
- Protrudes lips and thrusts breasts forward.

Clothes:
- Wears clothes that shows nipples underneath and they're perky and erect.
- Hem goes up to expose more thigh.
- She fixes, pats, smoothes clothes to look better for you.

Hands:
- Sits with one hand touching her breast.
- Rubs her chin or cheek. (Thinking about her and you relating in someway).
- Fondling keys, slides hand up and down a glass, playing with things on table.
- She touches your arm, hand, shoulder, or thigh while talking with you.
- Pretends to look at her watch as you pass by her.
- She rubs her wrists up and down.

Voice:
- Raises or lowers hers to match yours.
- Speeds up or slows down to match yours.
- Laughs in unison with you.
- In a crowd, speaks only to you and focuses all attention on you.

Misc:
- Mirrors your body language and positions.
- Skin tone becomes "red" while being around you.
- Blows smoke straight out towards you.

Talking to her:
- Can you keep a conversation going?
- Does she react well to you touching her?
- Does she touch you?

The answer should be "yes" to all. This means that the girl is captivated by your charm.
Watch her body language, and as soon as you get on track, keep it that way.
If the opposite happens, change the subject and see what happens.

Remember this:
Often times, from the really beautiful girls, the only sign of interest is,
her looking at your face...cause people tend to look at what or who they like.



BAR / CLUB SITUATIONS

Common signs of interest from the girl, applicable mostly in bar-room
and club situations.

She compliments you on virtually anything. Women are used to receiving
compliments, not giving them. So if she points out a positive
characteristic, you’ve impressed her.

She’s disagreeing but laughing. Flirtatious sarcasm, as in “Yeah, right,
like I believe that!” means she’s into you. If she weren’t, she’d simply
“Uh-huh” you into oblivion.

She keeps asking you to repeat yourself. She’s not allowing the blasting
music to come between the two of you. A suggestion of a quieter corner
to talk in will be well received.

She laughs at your lame junior high school-level jokes. She’s obviously
lust drunk. Or maybe just drunk.

She touches you anywhere. Touch her back in the equivalent place, and
let her up the ante, just in case her touch was an accidental slip of the
hand.

She stays put. If you run to drain the monster and she’s still where you
left her when you return, you’re doing something right. Likewise if she
comes back to you after she powders her nose.

She doesn’t flinch. If you reach across her to grab a drink or an ashtray
and she doesn’t pull back, she’s feeling physically comfortable with you.
Don’t blow it, pal.

She says, “Hey, where ya goin’?” as you leave the bar. She’s angling for
an invite. Even if she ultimately says no (she may not feel safe going off
with you or may not want to ditch her friends) it’s a sign she’s game for a
future hookup.

Proximity Alert System: When you walk into a room/store/bar etc, while
a woman might be reluctant or too shy to make eye contact, sometimes,
on a conscious or unconscious level, she will reveal her interest through
proximity. Guys do this all the time. Have you ever walked into a bar and
then made practically a bee line for the hottest chick, if only to be near
her and check her out more? And maybe you "changed your mind" and
instead of approaching her, you ordered a drink at the bar right next to
her? I've been in stores shopping where it seemed that a woman I had
seen, put herself near me several times over the course of 10-20
minutes. Coincidence? Maybe, but I don't really believe that, and it's far
more useful for me to believe that a woman finds me interesting or
attractive and is putting herself near me on purpose hoping that I may
start something.
Author:  jurupa [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Interpreting Body Language
Quote:
- Walk briskly.
Walking at a relax pace is much better than walking briskly.

Quote:
Eyes:
- Dilated pupils (big) = interested. (When it's dark outside/in, her pupils will be big anyways.
If it's sunny/bright and her pupils are big, she's interested).

- Contracted pupils (small) = not interested. (Sunny/bright her pupils will be small anyways.
So if it's bright and her pupils are small, she's not interested, but if it's bright and her pupils are big, she's interested).

- Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.

- While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
You also forgot to mention constant or near constant eye contact with you.
Quote:
Wears clothes that shows nipples underneath and they're perky and erect.
If she is going to a an 21+ club or to the strip club this may be the case. But other wise its going to be showing off her assets more than anything. This means things like more cleavage, tighter and/or sexier clothes.

Quote:
Sits with one hand touching her breast.
Never seen this happen nor read anything about this. So I doubt it is true.
Quote:
Pretends to look at her watch as you pass by her.
Or the ground, or looks at her cell phone.
Quote:
If the opposite happens, change the subject and see what happens.
As well as your body language, which is more important than what you are saying. As body language tells the girl way more than what you can ever say to her. As they say action speaks louder than words.
Quote:
Remember this:
Often times, from the really beautiful girls, the only sign of interest is,
her looking at your face...cause people tend to look at what or who they like.
They also tend to smile as well and try and make eye contact at the very least.

Quote:
She compliments you on virtually anything. Women are used to receiving
compliments, not giving them. So if she points out a positive
characteristic, you’ve impressed her.
I think this is true in any place you can pick up a girl at. Not just in club/bars. Tho it may not be as much as in a bar or club.
Quote:
She’s disagreeing but laughing. Flirtatious sarcasm, as in “Yeah, right,
like I believe that!” means she’s into you. If she weren’t, she’d simply
“Uh-huh” you into oblivion.
You need to also watch her body language when she says such things. As there are girls out there that will say such things to keep on flirting with the guy even tho they are not that into you.

Quote:
She laughs at your lame junior high school-level jokes. She’s obviously
lust drunk. Or maybe just drunk.
Or that into you. :wink:
Quote:
She touches you anywhere. Touch her back in the equivalent place, and
let her up the ante, just in case her touch was an accidental slip of the
hand.
I be careful of this. Because a slight touch on the breast, ass, or vagina can cause her to call for security/bouncer on you. I would ease into it to test the waters and see how she reacts to me touch her and start to close in on those regions. As its really easy in todays society for women to yell "rape" even tho they sent you the "invite".
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:12 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for adding in more...

This is just a lot of shit that I have came across a while back and finally
found it stored away on one of many CD's.

Thanks again for defining more SIGNS jurupa.


If anyone else has more that are TRUTH, feel free to post them here too.

I know a lot of new PUA's are probably wanting to know about body language.
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 2:20 am ]
Post subject: 
Your welcome. It helps to have a job where part of your job is to interpret body language :wink:
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