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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:57 am ] |
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PUSH-PULL EXPLAINED Now, there is no better way to explain this way that cannot be found on the Net just by searching. But, I decided to go ahead and post what I have found around the net... --- PUSH / PULL You do something that she likes, which is like creating tension or attraction and then suddenly you stop doing it. The tension or attraction releases, like in the horror movie, where the guy thought he was saved. It's the part of the wave where tension or attraction goes down. Then suddenly, you start doing it again. She will thank you that you start doing it (whatever it is) again. You not only start to create new attraction now, but also amplify it more and more throughout the process. The 3 Kinds Of Push / Pull: 1) Emotional Push / Pull: This is actually what I've described above. You simply do something that makes her feel REALLY good, and that she likes A LOT, then stop doing it, and after some time start doing it again. It really doesn't matter what this one thing is. It's just important that she likes it. like for example, a massage, you joking, etc. 2) Verbal Push / Pull: This one is actually pretty EASY/ You say something really nice or cute to her that will spark only a little bit of attraction (because compliments are what beautiful women hear all the time and don't work that well), then you pause and after some seconds you throw out the contrary, or something that "pushes" her a little bit away. EXAMPLES: - You're the coolest girl I've talked to (pull, tension)... in the last 5 minutes (push, release tension). - A part of me really wants to stay with you... but another part of wants to run away. - You know what? I'm gonna make you my girlfriend... for the next 3 minutes. I hope you get the idea. Make sure to pause between the push and the pull so that she first thinks, oh how cute and then BAM, you throw it in. 3) Physical Push / Pull: Have you ever kissed a woman, but after some seconds she pushed you away to stop? Well, guess what? That's physical push / pull. So when she kisses you, stop, and push her a little bit away, then start kissing her again, then stop... This will drive her crazy, and she will want it even more. Physical push / pull is a perfect tool to use when you do kino. You don't want to come across as needy, or pushy, and so if you push her away, like when you are holding her hand, and she says something wrong, you say... "Now, you've lost me", and throw her hand away. What you should get, is that attraction is like a wave. It goes up, and then goes down. Focus on creating those waves and if you do it several times in a row, you will amplify attraction, and create attraction loops, which is damn powerful. --- This was found on this site: http://genxxl.com/sex-dating/what-women ... technique/ The principle of Push and Pull technique is to control her emotions during a conversation. Be nice with her (“pull”), then right after it demonstrate indifference (“push” her away). Here’s an example. Establish a physical contact, touch her, show your interest, then move away a bit, push her off. Do the same in conversation. The most important thing is to find the balance between showing her you don’t care and you like her. Such behavior can make you more attractive to her. Most women like to be persuaded. This means, when you suggest something, even if she would want to do this or to go there, she would not say “yes” immediately, she would wait until you try to persuade her. Don’t do this, if she does so, just say “no problem” and don’t insist. This would make her confused and understand, that you are not to play with. Here’s is another example. In case, when she’s angling for a compliment by saying something negative about herself and expecting you say “no, you’re absolutely not fat, you’re so slim and beautiful”, don’t pay her compliments at all. Say something like “No problem, I like curvaceous women”. But be careful with negative (for her) statements, always mix “good” and “bad” messages. As said, find that balance, don’t try too hard, otherwise she could think, you’re brut and never want to have to do with you anymore. Tips How to Seduce a Woman Using the Push and Pull Technique The following tips how to seduce a woman should help you use the push and pull principle successfully. Be self-confident. Even if you’re very nervous, show her, that you are cool and deadpan. * Show your interest in her, but not all the time. Behave sometimes, as if you don’t care. * Don’t be like other men. * Don’t always give her, what she’s expecting from you. * Be playful. Tease her. * Be strong not only with muscles, dominate her in conversation. * Be a challenge for her. A challenge increases woman’s interest in you. Seducing Women Is Like Bodybuilding Don’t try to please her too much. Leave some incompleteness. Never let her be sure about your attitude to her, otherwise you’ll bore her. People don’t appreciate what they have already got. Even children behave so: as soon as a little girl gets the desired toy, she loses interest and wants another one. It can also be compared to bodybuilding – you want to gain more muscle mass, as soon as you have reached a particular result, then, when you’ve done another step, you again want to “grow” further. The same thing can be said about women. Let them always have a goal, that is you, let them strive for something, provide them a challenge. And they will be all yours. --- This was found on this site: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-arti ... 97398.html You've heard it before, and I'll say it again. Nice guys finish last! Why is this true? Basically, the reason is because they cater to women too much. There is no challenge. By doing too much and consistently paying attention to them, the women are basically bored to tears. The problem is that nice guys cater too much to the needs of women. By consistently paying attention and doing too much for women, these guys provide women no challenge and no "chase." And, regardless of what they say, women really do like a challenge even when they deny it. Like I said, being too nice will not get you where you want to be with women. The good news is that there is a way to be nice to women yet simultaneously build the necessary attraction. Actually, this is a great way to be an interesting, fun person but without being too nice. I call this technique the "Push-Pull." Trust me, it works! Here's why... Basically, the idea is to pull her in by do something nice then do something that will slightly push her away. It is effective because she never really knows if you are interested in her. As you probably know, it's human nature to want what we can't have. Also, by consistently using the push-pull technique, you will begin to build a lot of attraction because she will have to work for your attention. To reap the most benefits from the technique, start using it the very first time you meet a woman. If you want to attract women now, you must use it from the beginning. There is no getting around this fact. For instance, apply the technique during your first conversation with her when you introduce yourself. Try giving her a compliment and then say something that's slightly insulting. Now, there is a fine balance between complimenting and insulting so use that example cautiously. What you need to remember with the push-pull technique is that smiling throughout tells her that you are joking. You will be very successful if you can subconsciously push her away by consistently teasing her while also pulling her in with compliments. The key to this technique is that she continually wants your attention during those times when you "push her away." With a little practice, you will eventually master the push-pull technique and become a natural. Why wait? Go out, start practicing and attract women now! --- This was found on this site: http://ezinearticles.com/?Build-Attract ... &id=518257 Nice guys finish last! A reason this is true is because nice guys cater too much to the needs of women. By consistently paying attention and doing too much for women, these guys provide no challenge for them. In other words, they bore women to tears! As you know by now, being too much of a nice guy will get you nowhere. But there's a way you can do nice stuff and build attraction at the same time. In fact, it's a great way to be fun person while not being overly nice. I call it the "Push/Pull Technique". The idea behind this technique is to do something nice for a woman then do something that'll push her away. It works because you never let her know if you're really interested in her. In fact by consistently pushing a woman away and then pulling her in, you'll build some serious levels of attraction because she'll have to work hard for your attention. In order to maximize the push/pull technique, you should use it from the moment you meet a woman. During your initial conversation, employ the technique after you've introduced yourself. The best way to do this is to first compliment the woman and then say something that's slightly insulting. The one thing to remember is to use the push/pull technique with a smile that lets her know you're joking. It's really successful if you can consistently tease her while giving her compliments. It'll make her wonder if you're genuinely interested in her. By using the push-pull technique, you'll make her want your attention every time you push her away. Once you master this technique, you'll be able to attract virtually any woman you desire. |
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| Author: | bani [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:39 am ] |
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QUESTION: If I´m not supposed to use this technique to attract women I have already talked with, what should I use? |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:07 pm ] |
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Quote: QUESTION: If I´m not supposed to use this technique to attract women I have already talked with, what should I use?
This technique IS great to use. As I stated, these were taken from otherother websites. I do recommend using this. Just ignore the parts that say you should not use it. This works great... USE IT... |
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| Author: | coolbrownie69 [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 9:27 pm ] |
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What are some good examples of push-pull techniques? Is it basically just complimenting and then insulting back and forth? Is it like saying "you have a pretty face... but your body can use a bit more work"? (not the that extreme obviously) You're right about the nice guy thing... they definitely do finish last. I know because I used to be one of those guys because I thought women would like that kind of attention/kindness but boy was I wrong! |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:37 pm ] |
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EDITED the first post... Read the PURPLE text at the very top of this thread... |
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