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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 7:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Help me get out of the LJBOF zone
I think she's playing with me and/or putting me on the LJBOF zone (Let's Just Be Online Friends zone).

So, there's this girl that was from my school. There are some guys following up my progress on other threads.

The problem is that this girl loves to talk online to me, she misses me when I don't enter MSN, but she says she's not ok to go out with anyone (not just me, but anyone), but she does go out with her (girl)friends. And the 3 times I tried to set up a meeting she would come with excuses and put me waiting like "If I can go I'll call you.".

And to add more she lives very near me. It's totally possible to go to my house without a car.

Now, is this possible to solve this situation? I need some hardcore PUA walk through (step-by-step, and so I report the progress) here, because I'm starting to think all girls I meet are f*cking mad! :lol:
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:49 am ]
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Anyone?
Author:  KristallNachte [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 2:23 am ]
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meet IRL, otherwise stop caring
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 3:18 am ]
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meet IRL, otherwise stop caring
I concur. You need to tell her that you want to meet her in real life or else
you will report her to cyber crimes for trying to talk a young boy into having
sex and that you think she/he really is a 40 year old man who likes boys...

If all that she/he wants to do is talk online, and you two live within walking
distance from each others house, then I would suggest that you give them an
ultimatum.

Meet them in real life (don't go alone), or else stop all conversation with them
immediately.
Author:  anthrohahacock [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:17 am ]
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I'm a total noobie here, but I'll take a crack at this.

Um, yeah, tell her you want to actually meet up IRL, and if she still gives you lame-ass excuses (that she's "really busy"- trust me, I've gotten that so many times before), drop her. Remember, you're the prize, not her. Make her come to you, make her miss you!

I actually don't recommend "online friends" though- there's no real interaction between people online, I believe, since you don't receive the nonverbal reactions of a person (which is what makes a conversation between people special, instead of just an exchange of words). That's just my own opinion, sorry I went off on such a tangent there.
Author:  Chief [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:05 am ]
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You got some pretty bad oneitis there if you're even making up new BS afflictions like an "online friend zone."

Read this immediately: this one girl
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 6:11 pm ]
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Here's what I've got so far:

I started gaming another girl that added me on Orkut (kind of facebook social network). I've met this one on a rock show.

And in the mean time I freezed out (cut off contact by stop entering MSN for her) the other one. I did that yesterday and today she messaged me already on orkut and said "Where are you?".

I think I'll send her a message on orkut tomorrow or Tuesday saying "I've been pretty busy with friends, uni and work. But I'll go watch a movie on Saturday. You should go too if you're free."

And I'll never appear on MSN for her again until she meets me in real person.
Author:  Chief [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 10:08 pm ]
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Quote:
Here's what I've got so far:

I started gaming another girl that added me on Orkut (kind of facebook social network). I've met this one on a rock show.

And in the mean time I freezed out (cut off contact by stop entering MSN for her) the other one. I did that yesterday and today she messaged me already on orkut and said "Where are you?".

I think I'll send her a message on orkut tomorrow or Tuesday saying "I've been pretty busy with friends, uni and work. But I'll go watch a movie on Saturday. You should go too if you're free."

And I'll never appear on MSN for her again until she meets me in real person.
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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:02 am ]
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I need a good answer now. LOL

HB: "WTF? You'll only appear now on Saturday??? ._.
Yeah... forget your (girl)friends. :T (using sarcastic language)
GB is over for you now! You better find another teacher u.ú"


PS: GB is GunBound. A game she's been playing with me on the internet.



Now, this looks like a shit-test. And I have no idea on how to pass this.

Should I just ignore her supplication and reinforce my frame by saying "Yeah! I'll appear on Saturday on the mall at 14:00. You should appear too. It'll be great! But anyway, if you really miss me that bad and can't sleep if don't talk to me before Saturday we can schedule a day of the week and you can come here to my house so you can teach me how to play GunBound properly, because your online teaching sucks."?
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:21 pm ]
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bump
Author:  Chief [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 3:22 pm ]
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Just stop talking to her and go meet girls in real life. Stop trying to seriously game girls you meet on the internet. That is one of the most pathetic thing anyone can ever do, especially if it's from playing a fucking video game.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 3:27 pm ]
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Quote:
Just stop talking to her and go meet girls in real life. Stop trying to seriously game girls you meet on the internet. That is one of the most pathetic thing anyone can ever do, especially if it's from playing a fucking video game.
Yeah, but she was from my school. I just happened to have her contacts online, so why not?

But I do game other girls outside. But this one is very hot.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 5:25 pm ]
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LOL!!!

HB: "Yeah, I DO miss u that bad :(
That's why I texted you this morning... did u get my msg?

And by the way, thanks for the compliments ¬¬ Forget the classes (y) aheuiheuieao It's not my fault if you suck in that stupid game."


She indeed texted me. LOL

It was the first text message she sent me.

Now I keep my frame and she will call me and go meet me. That's her next step or her loss. 8)
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 9:50 pm ]
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Quote:
Just stop talking to her and go meet girls in real life. Stop
trying to seriously game girls you meet on the internet. That is one of the
most pathetic thing anyone can ever do, especially if it's from playing a
fucking video game.
LMAO IRL... It's funny, if you want to meet girls that play video games, I
would suggest that you buy Phantasy Star Universe Ambition of the Illuminus.

There are plenty of girls that play this game who are looking for a little
flirty fun...

Yes, I played this game before, and still do on occasion. It is very addictive.
There are people of ALL AGES on this game.
Author:  Brenoporra [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 1:53 am ]
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dude, my guess is, this girl most probably doesnt have maturity to get on with anyone, she just treat you with so much affection cause internet its her scape, dunno, Im just assuming
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