PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

alcohol influence
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=40265
Page 1 of 1

Author:  fratss [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:46 pm ]
Post subject:  alcohol influence

this just came up to me, and i wanna share it with you guys..

Everybody knows that being drunk is not the smartest thing to do, for a lot of reasons...

Allright, i'm not a drinker, i'm an athlete, but once in a while when you get a day off of training, me and my teammates plann a night of drinking together, just to get out of the training system.. getting drunk (not too drunk) is funny, because when the vibe is right, you can have a good time out of it..
Last saturday I had one of those nights.. Me and my teammates got pizza, beers and played stupid funny soccer games on the playstation and poker all night... we had a lot of fun and the whole day we were excited about the party night ahead of us..

Because i was the only one with knowledge about picking up women, it got me thinking.. How can i game under influence of alcohol and still be succesfull instead of blurry and a stupid average drunk ass..

My vibe was awesome that night, party mood! So we went to the club and i entered completely dominant and ofcours went to the first beautiful girl that was in front of me to warm up and got even more in a good mood... Because i was under influence, i totally skipped all the lines and shit, and just went to party.. Jump around like an freaking idiot (on purpose) because i just didn't give a fuck.. there was no shame and it worked out great... I dominated without even trying to dominate. There were two ex girlfriends of mine with their current boyfriends, and they were both within 5meters of me the whole night trying to talk to me.. i ruled the most beautiful girl in the club that night and the next day got a sh..load of textmessages of that girl and other girls that night.. that same night my ex girlfriend spoke into my voicemail, that still loves me blabla..

what i learned this night is the kind of vibe i CAN get into.. i never experienced it like this... I thought it was because of the alcohol, that i lost my sense of shame.. maybe that's partly true, but on the other side it was just the choice of not giving a fuck and just have a good party.. this was one of those nights that everything went perfect and everybody around me felt my energy, they were kissing my ass while the world champion of the sport i'm doing was in the same room and he is a national fucking celebrity, i didn't give a fuck about him, because i had too much fun..

I expended my 'self-knowledge' this night, I'm quite an experienced pua, but this night i felt how it was to be a PUA on a extremely high level..

I guess what doesn't make this story a field report but a newby subject is the message of getting yourself into that partymood alll the time instead of working in your own head... i realised that before, but i kept thinking too much i guess.. I control the attraction, comfort phases, but I only control it when i'm relaxed and only with that mood i'm able to show good bodylanguage, it's not an act, it's a vibe....

The next night I went out in a really small town to celibrate Carnaval (a dutch tradition party every year, everybody dressed like idiots like halloween, but there is no dresscode..) with a beautiful girl/photomodel i know from the old days.. Because i was in this same mood again, i was completely independant that night and i didn't see my friend much, because i was partying with the local people.. it drove her crazy and she was completely into me later that night.. so i ended up that night in bed with this beautiful girl..

cheers

Author:  mogness [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 2:27 pm ]
Post subject: 

I know the mood you're talking about, but it's pretty rare that I'm able to psych myself up and get into it. I'm more of an rFC myself. If I'm lucky I wind up falling into it if I'm around a lot of close friends and we go out to the bar for a couple beers or something. Only happens if don't get drunk tho, then I have a lil buzz and i'm feeling right. Can't figure out what it is that really gets me in the relaxed chillin mood. I heard a lot of these guys go on about NLP and self-hypnosis but I'm pretty skeptical about all that.
So, how do you do it? What gets you in the mood to game?

Author:  fratss [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:12 pm ]
Post subject: 

First of all... you should be totally excited to meet new women before you go out! You are into this game for a reason.. meet women! So you have to be excited about it! Going out is all about fun, once you realise that, it'll make it more easy..
That's some basic stuff.. to manually get into that mood is hard indeed.. but the better you feel, the easier it is to get into the flow..
When you're new to the game, you should get rid of your approach anxiety, just by opening so many girls until you realise that the outcome doesn't matter at all anymore.. You'll get more relaxed among beautiful women.. Being in a relaxed mindstate will make it easier for you to have more fun and talk more openminded.. Get rid of any problems that keep you busy and keep you from feeling bad.. being openminded in combination with a lot of fun, will make it more easy to be playful and attractive. Girls like guys who have a good time.

Combine it with pua material like building attraction and comfort by giving kino, recognize IOI's and it'll make things even more easy.. But it takes time... you'll control it after a while if you go out on the streets or in clubs to approach, learn and test.

you know.. if you're not in the mood, just accept it, don't worry about it.. just hold on to the thought that the outcome of approaching isn't important, it's the lesson you learn out of it.
Yesterday (monday night) i had one of those nights.. i was tired after 2 days of partying and i was at an international student party... It was fun! but i wasn't in the mood, so i just went to some girls and talked to them.. because my bodylanguage was good, they responded positive to everything i said.. but the music was loud and they all had funny accents what made it really hard to understand what they were saying.. it's okay, there will be plenty of next times :D..

have fun

Author:  robotvagina [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 8:06 pm ]
Post subject: 

nothing hurts your comfort screening ability than being drunk, on any level, tipsy or worse.

Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/