Quote: So i met this girl last weekend, we hit it off with some hot kino escalation  at her place, we were all going to go out that night but something happened so we didn't. Anyways i sent her a facebook message about the incident and she told me how much it meant to her that i sent her that message, then she gave me her number and invited me to go out to eat with her and her two friends that were at her place that night. Anyways i'm having lunch with her tomorrow how should i handle myself and not fall into the friend zone, i wouldn't say she's out of my league but she's def in a league i havn't played in or at least good playing in, oh and she just got back together with her long distance boyfriend who shes been on and off with for a while.
I would tell her that you cannot make it to lunch.. come up with some excuse.
Tell her that you will call her later to make other plans with her.
You don't want to be available for her a lot. Friends hang out all the time
together.
You said that there was some hot kino between you two the night before...
you want that to be the last thing on her mind when she does see you again,
you don't want her to tell people, "yeah, I had lunch with my friends today."
One of those friends being YOU...
Or, you said that she just got back with her on/off BF... she might have told
him that she was having lunch with friends in order to see you again... this
is a hard situation to look into... it can go many ways.
I would just suggest that you not go to this lunch meeting of friends, and
instead, have her meet you somewhere else later that night... maybe a
movie at your place so you can be alone with her and see just how far she
is willing to go since she did get pretty hot with you at her place before...
when she did have a BF again...
ON/OFF boyfriends are just that... when she wants/feels like she needs a
guy in her life, she goes back to her last BF. Maybe he gives her good sex,
maybe he gives her emotional connection, whatever it may be, she was
fooling around with you the other night, and not him... right.
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