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Author:  malvado [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  What's the next move?? HELP
Hey guys, first off thanks in advance for any help I get. Here's my story:

I went out Thursday to a club with some friends. One of the guys I was out with is a complete natural and he picked up this really cute redhead. His target however had her friend with her and she looked quite uncomfortable to be around the making out and all that. So i decided to wing him (it's the polite thing to do). So he introduced me to her and i was able to give him and his target the whole night together. The target's friend turned out the be a really awesome girl though. I built a lot of comfort throughout night, bounced her a lot around the club, and did some light kino, hugging and hand holding. Im also really funny so i must have had her laughing at least half the time she was with me. So around 1am we all bounced to my buddies house, pretty much so he can fuck his target and i did him the favor of taking out the friend to a late night food run, (i didnt spend any money). So we pretty much talked the night away and built massive comfort. We talked a lot about a lot of things, she told me she had a very fulfilling night, and that she was glad i decided to go out that night (i told her i wasnt planning on going out that night, as to make it seem that it was meant to be). Anyways at the end of the night she dropped me off, as i was exiting the car she said "hey" and gave me a hug, so i went ahead and gave her a kiss too and i told her "i'll see you... ummm.... whenever.

The next day i texted her using a Mehow opener. Pretty much everything that has gone on since thursday night is texting so ill show the threads.

Next day:
Me: Those beautiful eyes, those sexy lips, the smoothest of walks, but enough about ME. hows your day going cool girl?
Her: dont flatter me too much... my day has been mellow, yours?
(i was at work and away from my desk for about 5hrs, so i didnt text her back till the afternoon)
Me: Just got out of work, im gonna head to a bar in LA with some friends. what are your plans for tonight?
Her: well im going out to dinner with some friends and then im not sure what
Me:Nice have fun at dinner, speaking of which i need some dinner idas of my own, whats your fav. food?
(much later)
Her: I like sushi, btw i know youre far but do you know of any parties tonight?
Me: Well im just headed back [to hometown] from LA but ill let you know if i find out about anything
Her:K sounds good, ttyl

next day:
i used a Mehow opener that i didnt want to really use, but i went for it anyways

Me: Hey little shrimp, its your shrimp daddy.
Her: What?!
Me:Lol, i was just a little bored, though id send you a fun message
Her: So how are you
i did not reply and called her about 3 hrs later, she did not pick up, i left a voice mail, " hey its me, you can call me back"
i did not receive a call back.

so on monday i sent her another canned text message

Me: Hey you just popped into my head... so HI! now stay out of there i need it for school
Her: no reply

its tuesday today, and i really dont know what the next move should be. Sorry for the super long post, but i really connected with this girl and would love any help i could get.
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:42 am ]
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Quote:
she said: she was glad i decided to go out that night.
She had fun with you, something that every girl likes in a potential boyfriend.
Quote:
as i was exiting the car she said "hey" and gave me a hug, so i went ahead and gave her a kiss too
Once again, she was showing you that she likes you. Did she seem like the
shy type when you FIRST met her... or was she real outgoing?

Just because she didn't reply or call you back does not mean that she is
avoiding you... she might have had something major come up and just does
not have the time to get back to you yet...

Then again, you might have lost her because of this...
Quote:
Me: Just got out of work, im gonna head to a bar in LA with some friends. what are your plans for tonight?
Told her your exciting plans.
Quote:
Her: well im going out to dinner with some friends and then im not sure what
She was wanting you to give her an invite to go with you.
Quote:
Me:...
Her: I like sushi, btw i know youre far but do you know of any parties tonight?
She was again waiting for you to invite her to go with you.
You might have gotten laid.
Quote:
Me: Well im just headed back [to hometown] from LA but ill let you know if i find out about anything
You were waiting for more fun talk from her but instead you got this...
Quote:
Her:K sounds good, ttyl
Right here is where you might have lost her. She is probably thinking that
you don't want to do anything with her because you think she is weird or
whatever. If she paid for the food when you left the house to give your
friend time to lay his target, that right there might have been her way of
really showing you that she liked you and wanted to date you.

I would give it until Friday, and see what happens. If you don't hear from
her by Friday, just "happen" to be at that same club where you met her at.
More than likely she will be there again.

This being said in the event that you really do want to make this girl the one
that you lay or decide to get into a relationship with.
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:55 am ]
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Yeah, If a girl is giving you pretty obvious invites, I normally take them, just as long as you do it in a nonchalant way that doesn't telegraph too much interest.

As PUA's in general you are already confusing girls emotions enough. And I'm sure everyone has ample experience as to how incredibly unstable, and unlogical the female psyche is. So... I normally abide by the rule that You was to seem uninterested sexually, not that you dislike her as a person. Not saying that that was this specific case.. But look for the clues. I'd hold off a bit a few days even wait for a response. If you get nothing text and/or call. and if she gives you one of these invites again, go for it! she seemed to be genuinely interested.
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:01 am ]
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I swear I'm not grammatically challenged.... wow....

you get the idea
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