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| Author: | graplin [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | things are going to fast! |
Hey guys. Ok I met a girl that has recently split with her bf of 3 years. I am in to her and have got a little case of oneitis. I don't mind that to much, but we have been seein a lot of eachother and txt eachother everyday, all day some times! (Bad I know!) But the other day she said that we need to slow things down as she isn't fully over her ex bf. I was fine with that. I know she really likes me, but don't really know what to do now as I don't want to keep to much distance that we drift apart and I don't want to keep txting and calling her. And it seem pushy. What's the best way to handle this? Cheers. |
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| Author: | truckerzero [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:15 pm ] |
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when a woman says that it means your being too klingy you should be much harder to get ahold of dont answer any texts or phone calls for 1 or 2 days and say you have been busy hangin with friens work school mysterys freeze out works to get sex but also for getting a girl back into you when she starts to pull away never ever ever chase a girl a natural alpha would never do that this is the hardest part you must be willing to let her go even if you dont want to thats what the naturals do ps at this point you pretty much lost her even though you dont think so yet i know i used to be the very needy guy and had this same thing happen many times TRUST ME |
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| Author: | Lucky D [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 11:14 pm ] |
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Yea... when she says "We gotta slow down" or "I'm not ready yet" it's often excuses to hide the real reason, whatever it may be. Still, I don't think it's all lost. Truckerzero got a point, that you gotta be ready to lose a woman if u wanna get her. When she tells you she needs space, give her more than she asks for, because she's only expecting u to give a little. When she tells you "Give me a minute", you give her two, cause she's only expecting 30 seconds. What's the difference between abruptly vs gradually quitting smoking? (i think u know this one lol). It's like when someone important dies, if you see it coming it's a lot easier to accept, vs someone who dies in a car crash, unexpectedly. It's hard to accept it, you want that person back, or 2 days into your smoking strike you'll give in! Don't gradually fade away, be that unexpected disapearance! Successfully create a turmoil in her emotions and she'll come back, she ain't gonna wanna lose another man. |
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