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| Author: | Pottish [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When two quiet people meet.... |
Hey folks was going to post this in general but I dont have enough posts. I met some girl on saturday I'd been speaking to a bit on the web. It went ok we got on fair enough and things. Problem is I'm naturally a quiet inward person and it seems she is too. She seemed reasonably interested in me but I had to make most of the conversation for the night. I'll be seeing her again and I'm assuming conversation wise it'll be the same mostly me making conversation. I know about some of her interests but they are'nt great for conversation so I'm hoping not to rely on that. I dunno wether she was just shy quiet but interested or quiet and uninterested. Her body language was quite conflicting lol though that's more likely a sign I'm bad at reading it. Anyway any advice on how to keep conversation strong with her would be really appreciated. Some recommendations on what we should do for our second date would be nice, we went to the pics n had a drink afterwards so I'm thinking neither of them. Any help for this afc would be much welcomed |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:07 pm ] |
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You know some of her interests but THEY ARE NOT CONVERSATION WORTHY?? Anything that a shy girl (any girl) is interested in is CONVERSATION WORTHY.. It will OPEN HER UP into talking more... because you are talking about something that SHE LIKES DOING... It don't matter if you don't like it, you can ask her questions about what she likes doing in order to open her up to more conversation. Talk about what she likes doing, and find REAL HUMOR in something, don't DIS-RESPECT what she likes doing... tease her about it in a funny way, but don't off as a jackass when you tease her about it... Comment on things that will get a laugh from her. Ask her why she is so passionate about this thing that she loves doing... She will open up and start talking more since you are generally interested in what she likes to do... and then she will ask you what you like to do... Find common ground so you two CONNECT with each other and then you should see a change in her body language for the better. Don't forget to add a little KINO into the mix too... if she laughs about something when she is talking about it, touch her lightly on her hand, arm, shoulder or something (not somewhere too sexual though). This anchors that good feeling with you because she was laughing and having a good time with you and you touched her planting that feeling of feeling good around you. Just make sure that you continue the KINO at happy times with you. Also, you could also hug her when she says something that's funny.. Just tell her, "That was cool of you, HUG.." And hug her. Don't stay in the hug too long, just hug her for ONE SECOND and pull away and say, "that's all you get for now..." |
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