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| Author: | Detimilnu [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 10:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Isolating in a club is DIFFICULT! |
I want her. She seemed to want me. She had 7 friends who keeped pulling her from one room to another every time we are dancing togeather. It's just like they are totally oblivious to me Isolating her, and hitting on her so obviously. They are so dumb! I don't know what to do! My wing tried to help me, and took 3 of them out to smoke [most of wm were "Big fat Friends"], but then after a sec she was grabbed again. How do I eliminate 7 GFs? >< |
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| Author: | Stetson [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 10:41 am ] |
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Have seven boys Just don't follow her if her friends grab her somewhere, stay right where you are and start dancing with some other girl near you. |
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| Author: | Alex88 [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 3:18 pm ] |
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i hate when fugly firends get n the way and screw things up . usualy it sbecause they are jealous that the cute ones getting all the attention . |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 4:05 pm ] |
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Yeah this is a fact of life. Basically, you must win over the set to get to the target, but fuck 7 chicks... |
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| Author: | SUB-ZERO [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 4:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 2 many obstacles |
If you are not having trouble with the attraction phase try giving her a hoop of dodging her friends. Say something like "I don't think your friends like me because they keep trying to pry us apart." If she notices this is bothering you, and she likes to be with you, she will tell her friends to step off. This will also get her to get her friends to like you more by her assuring them that you are cool and she wants to just be with you for a little while. |
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| Author: | [Vegas] [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 4:51 pm ] |
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Maybe if it happened once where she was pulled away I would try to recover it, but that's a deffinite maybe. I probably would have just gone and opened a new set. Get everything going smoothly and use it for social proof if I still wanted the first girl or just keep the set going if I'm liking it. Don't be afraid to hop sets at a club; there are plenty of people there to meet. One girl getting pulled away just gives you the chance to go meet others. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 8:03 pm ] |
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If they knew you were trying to isolate and kept screwing you over, you could have either made them like you enough to not drag her off. Or you could isolate within the same area by just turning her from the set using positioning. |
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| Author: | robotvagina [ Sat Feb 14, 2009 8:53 pm ] |
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i never waste my time on sets any bigger than 4. lonewolfs are by far the easiest to game, seeing as how theyre alone for a REASON, and anything else is about making the target a lone wolf. theyre tough to come by, because girls are obsessed with their reputation, and will rarely go to a party alone. im only 18 so i havent seen much club experience but id think there are more lone wolfs there. college setting kinda requires you to go with someone, youll look like a loser otherwise. 2 sets are TOUGH unless you got a wing (which i dont, the guys i chill with have no game) or something equally interesting to distract her lol which is never enough cus shell end up finding the target even if you isolate. 2 sets can be a bitch, id know i just got my ass cockblocked HARD last weekend. im just gonna start pivoting my ass off and hopefully the social proof i get can lower bitch shields on the friends at least a little bit. i dunno tho the whole point of pivoting is to make the target warm up to you by seeing that you are preselected by girls, this doesnt make the friend any less jealous. whatever 3 sets are better. its not quite as obvious youre gaming the target, and the minimal amount of rapport needed to be built with the other two is smaller than the rapport youd have to build if there was only one friend. plus, and most importantly if you decide to escalate, nobodys standing there alone and jealous. 4 sets are mad sketchy cus theres alot of flirting to be done with everyone else, and with each extra bitch there, theres one more chick there who can get jealous, god forbit you dont satisfy her. you can work the 7 set like a charm but it only takes one of the 6 others to cockblock your ass. |
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| Author: | xX D1V1NE Xx [ Sun Feb 15, 2009 5:14 pm ] |
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throw a grenade at her 7 GS's |
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| Author: | Stetson [ Sun Feb 15, 2009 7:41 pm ] |
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Quote: throw a grenade at her 7 GS's
Thats more like it Quote: "I don't think your friends like me because they keep trying to pry us apart."
Actually this one is great, just say it with a smile, like you would just be kidding around. She'll have a laugh or two, while at the same time she gets the point. Her friends are being a huge cockblock to her too |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:51 am ] |
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It's not all about you. Women need social proof more than men. If the cute girl leaves the team, they're just a bunch of pigs. On the other hand, if the cute girl is partying with them, well there must be some reason, right? Just going in there and yanking her away from the group is a sure formula to ring up those red alerts. The only reason to isolate your girl is to GET INTIMATE. Everything else can be done with her friends all around you so don't be afraid to party with the fatties. Have fun. Talk them up, befriend them all. . . Dance with them. Then . . . "Whew, let's go grab a shot." When you do isolate her, you don't "dance" with her. You escalate that shit as fast as possible with that, "Let's see if we can get away with making out while we can." Attitude. This is one of those, "You're so fucking hot," then pounce on her type moments. Now, it doesn't matter what happens. If the fatties come and pull her away. You just smile . . . Hell, push her away and go, "Have fun" . . . and start chatting up some other ladies or dancing with others, etc . . . She'll be back 100% on her own. |
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