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Author:  slyguy [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:27 am ]
Post subject:  how do i overcome my fear of incompetance...

i've hooked up w/ probably 3 or 4 girls in my life but i've only had sex like 4 times. i'm great at fingering, making them feel good, but i'm a noob when it comes to sex.

now i'm in college, and i keep feeling like i'll just suck at sex, expecially since i havent gotten layed in like a year. so i dont really know how i can overcome this

Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 7:27 am ]
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Keep it simple... Missionary, But you've gotta do the get laid work first.

Author:  slyguy [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 7:34 am ]
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i feel like i'm going to get majorly rejected if i happen to suck at sex or if i cum to quickly.

is this a possibility?

another thing thats adds to this is that i'm not sure where most girls in my peer group are w/ sex either. i dont know if theyve all had it a million times nad dont think anything of it anymore. or if theyre still like prude high school girls

Author:  Ezo [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:44 am ]
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Go oral first and then the real stuff...

Author:  KristallNachte [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 4:38 pm ]
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Maybe you just need to work on confidence in general. I hear demonic confidence is good.

In terms of the sex thing, get a fuck buddy.

Author:  slyguy [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:12 pm ]
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id love to get a fuckbuddy, i dont even know how to go about that tho

Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:08 am ]
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As I've thought about it... Fuck buddy seems to be the ultimate goal of the mystery method specifically.

If your bad at sex, watch as much porn as you can... And Don't try to do the awkward positions that the seem to be enjoying so much.. because they dont work.. they just look good on camera. Instead, look at their confidence level. if you are cocky about how good you are.. and you aren't, it doesn't matter because the girl already has this impression that you are the shit in bed. so you go in there.. do your missionary position. flip her over do the same thing. try to last longer than 5 minutes. and 90% of the time, because of your confidence, she will be more than satisfied. and tell her friends.. (social proof)


" I never had the birds and the bees talk with my father. The closest thing I had was, we were having breakfast one morning and he said 'listen up. I'm only going to tell you this one tyme... my father was from the fuji's... Sex is find of like cooking this egg. first you crack her open, knock her out and lay 'er out flat. be careful.. don't get that yellow stuff in with the white stuff... And then when she starts to sizzle.. flip er' over and add bacon"
-Daniel Tosh

Author:  kasabi [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:38 am ]
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Dude, you're a man, not a mouse.

You fuck em' for your pleasure. All this new shit about having to please them this way or that. PLEASE . . . You fuck em' upside down, hanging by a rope if you want to and you get your rocks off when you want to.

Sometimes they deserve a little something extra so they get the all night special. Sometimes, I'm in and out in 5 minutes and they go, "What the f--"

"Yeah, I have a 9am meeting. I'd appreciate it if you could sleep now or allow me to rest."

You run the show the way you want to run it. The important thing however is that once in a while, you do need to give em' a decent pounding so that they can last through the times when you're short on patience.

Plenty girls confess to me about their boyfriends in college who'd shoot off within 2 minutes of missionary. There's a girl who tells me now that she used to cry herself to sleep after EVERY session with her ex. Not so great . . .

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