PUA Forum :: In need of some help...

Well I'm not sure if I have created a bad situation here.

I've invited my ex who was a oneitis to this moonlight theatre thing with me and my mate. Now she's asked if her bf can come too and I said I'd have to check, then she said they could meet us up there.

Now I didn't intend on her bf coming so I need to figure out someway of getting her to come with a friend.

Because she was my oneitis and I haven't seen her in ages, I feel that seeing her with him would rattle me a bit.

I don't know if I should try and get another chick mate to come along with us to even things out.

I don't want her back but I'd still like to talk with her without the presence of her bf.

Help would be appreciated.

Author:	PAINKILLER [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 12:07 pm ]
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Well I'm not sure if I have created a bad situation here. I've invited my ex who was a oneitis to this moonlight theatre thing with me and my mate. Now she's asked if her bf can come too and I said I'd have to check, then she said they could meet us up there. Now I didn't intend on her bf coming so I need to figure out someway of getting her to come with a friend. Because she was my oneitis and I haven't seen her in ages, I feel that seeing her with him would rattle me a bit. I don't know if I should try and get another chick mate to come along with us to even things out. I don't want her back but I'd still like to talk with her without the presence of her bf. Help would be appreciated.

Author:	LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 5:30 pm ]
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Quote: Well I'm not sure if I have created a bad situation here. I've invited my ex who was a oneitis to this moonlight theatre thing with me and my mate. Now she's asked if her bf can come too and I said I'd have to check, then she said they could meet us up there. Now I didn't intend on her bf coming so I need to figure out someway of getting her to come with a friend. Because she was my oneitis and I haven't seen her in ages, I feel that seeing her with him would rattle me a bit. I don't know if I should try and get another chick mate to come along with us to even things out. I don't want her back but I'd still like to talk with her without the presence of her bf. Help would be appreciated. If she wants her BF to come with her, then so be it... Make friends with him. Her asking this could be her way of saying: - She just wants to be friends with you, nothing more. You said that you haven't seen her IN AGES??? Then why are you still obsessed with her? You got over her, she is just a past girlfriend, don't look back into the past bro... put blinders on and just continue running the race. If you are thinking about getting another girl to come along, that's good... you said that you don't want her back, but yet, you are sounding like you do. If you want to talk to her without the presence of her BF, this even sounds more like you are not over this girl and do want to try and get back with her. This is sounding more and more like you are reverting back to your old self... when you had no game. You are sounding more and more AFC with this post bro... Just don't worry about this girl no more. So what if she's hot. Guess what... There are more than just ONE girl in the world who are hot. Find another one and get over this girl already. Drop all contact with her if you have to man. I know this sounds .... mean ..... but, this is the cold hard truth bro.

Author:	SiNfUl [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 5:38 pm ]
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I agree with LEPRECHAUN's post.

Author:	dilequeno [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:05 am ]
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exgirlfriend... oneitis... don't invite her, forget her... it's even easier if you already havent seen her in ages!

Author:	pillowfighter [ Tue May 05, 2009 11:47 am ]
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yup - take a cute girl. play it cool. subtly allude to good things happening for you. the point about befriending (and subtly beta-ing) the BF is great. if he's a mechanic you could offer him a job to fix your car, say...

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Author:	Cock_roach [ Thu May 07, 2009 6:42 am ]
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Painkiller, rather don't let her come with her BF. In such situation, does it make any sense? I guess you won't feel comfortable with her with new BF. Just talk her you two could meet another time, maybe for short, but without such company. If she comes with her BF and you with a woman, it would seem like a kind of.. demonstration. What for? Anyway, would you be happy to see your ex being huged by someone else? No matter how much time has passed?

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