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Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:00 am ]
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i went to this big party tonight, and this HB8 was sitting on the couch by herself. so i went over to her to talk to her, and soon she was giving me hugs, bodyshots, and cigarettes cuz she didnt wanna smoke alone. she gave me IOIs SEVERAL times throughout the night, even said she wished she could come home with me but her dog would shit all over her house (lol). so she hands me her camera while she grabs me a drink, and when she comes back i say that its MY camera now. she puts up a bit of a fight until i say "whats it worth to you?" and i got the answer i was looking for: a kiss. so were making out for a while in a room off to the side, then i had to use the bathroom so she said shes gonna go get another drink. when i come back from the bathroom i see her dancing with this guy that has been following us around almost the whole night. i was kind of jealous but i didnt wanna come off as needy so i stayed back until she came over. but then i saw him kiss her and i got really angry and just left the party. So i K-closed and N-closed, should i still call her even though the end of the night kinda went in a bad direction?
Author:  MarthXII [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:06 am ]
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Question Before anything, Was she Drunk?
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:25 pm ]
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she wasnt drunk when i opened her, but she kept drinking so she may have been a little bit by the end of the night but i couldnt tell a change in her personality/speech/things like that
Author:  Blade Runner [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:32 pm ]
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Why did you let the guy follow you around you should have disarmed him.
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 5:08 pm ]
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she was all over me all night, i figured he would take a hint. he would just randomly show up.
Author:  Detimilnu [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 5:46 pm ]
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Oh man that sucks.
You should have tackle him 'excidantaly' when they were dancing or say 'wow dude you dance great, doesn't he?'

Now you might call her, and I know it might be unpleasent, but you should come up with something mean to say.
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 5:58 pm ]
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i want to call her because shes a really cute girl, but im kind of angry about it. what should i say?
Author:  Jaybot [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:09 pm ]
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nothing, if she likes you she will bring it up or will hope you have forgotten. I wouldn't bother mentioning it because let face it she isn't your gf so can kiss and dance with whoever she wants.
Author:  JUSTINcredible! [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:21 pm ]
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i want to call her because shes a really cute girl, but im kind of angry about it. what should i say?
First off a couple of things...
As mentioned before, when the guy was following you two you should've disarmed him.
"Hey man whats up how do you know HB8..."
This gives you info on who he is and so forth.

When you saw her making out with the guy, it was a good move on your part to just leave the situation. You have her contact info plus you K closed so just reframe as a victory. Not from a sense of getting closer with "that one girl," but a personal victory for your game.

As far as calling goes. Don't get pissed at her or show any signs of reaction to her kissing another guy. A very real possibility for girls that kisses several guys a night is that "its not a big deal."

Over all just be cool, calm & collected. The girls should be reacting to you not the other way around. Reaction lowers your "value."


:D
my long winded two cents
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:29 pm ]
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so when i call her, any tips on what to say? maybe suggest a day 2?
Author:  JUSTINcredible! [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:49 pm ]
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so when i call her, any tips on what to say? maybe suggest a day 2?
Honestly anyone can give you some money lines but it wont help your game and you wont learn from it.
It be best if you understood as to why these lines work.

mindset

:D non needy -dont jump into asking her out
:D non reactive -dont mention why shes kissing other guys.
:D you are fun and cool -talk about good points from the night you two were vibing. Mention any little nicknames or inside jokes that the two of you may have shared.
:D Close -after a few minutes of talking and getting her in a good mood (ie her laughing) end the convo with a possible meet up. As a gen rule you end on a high note, so she has a good lasting impression on you. As far as a possible meet up, invite her to join you in whatever you were on your way to do. Lunch, coffee, grocery shopping, clothes shopping...etc.

overall you got a life to live and your screening girls to see if they can hang with you and your lifestyle.



:D
"happy hunting."
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:58 pm ]
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"overall you got a life to live and your screening girls to see if they can hang with you and your lifestyle."

wow i really like that. Great mindset. So i should just put the whole "kissing the other guy" out of my mind?
Author:  JUSTINcredible! [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:47 pm ]
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"overall you got a life to live and your screening girls to see if they can hang with you and your lifestyle."

wow i really like that. Great mindset. So i should just put the whole "kissing the other guy" out of my mind?
yes outta your mind. Just look it as "training to not give a shit about shit that doesn't matter."



:)
Author:  Grappler [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 11:39 pm ]
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well you were right. i texted her today and didnt mention the negatives. shes being really flirty now and she wants to hang out tonight. thanks guys
Author:  Grappler [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 1:57 am ]
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alright so ive got an update. i was jealous of her kissing another guy, but i found out today that it was her boyfriend. so i went from jealous to accomplished that i hooked up with her even though she has a boyfriend. i call this closure haha
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