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Author:  Fame_and_Fortune [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  I f*cked up big time before. is all hope lost?
So i used to like this girl a lot, (this was all before i started studying game) and everything went great for a while. I was the happiest i'd ever been. But then i started getting to clingy, too needy, and she definetly picked up on it. She started to not like me as much, and it all went downhill from there. We were always fighting, at some points we were'nt even friends. Now its 3 months later, and i don't think she particularly gives a shit anymore. She still hates me for all of the hell that we went through, and she just got a new boyfriend a few days ago. Until i started studying game, i thought all of it was her fault. i told her she was immature, and childish, and i could tell that she didnt care about me (very needy thing to say). I thought i was over her, but today i saw her with her boyfriend, and i honestly have to say i had to use all my strength to keep from beating his face in, so obviously i still have strong feelings for her. Is there anything i can do to win her back, now that i have changed my ways?
Author:  base_player [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:04 am ]
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Dude, let her be. Your relationship is over, she even got a new boyfriend!
If you're feeling this jealous, that would only hinder you in getting her back.
And as prolly anybody else will advise you, look for other girls and get over her.

Well the only way for you to get back with her that i can think of would be that you game other girls so that you can get over your jealousy, get on friends terms with her, and accept the fact that she has a new guy. Then, if you can convey that you changed and are not a needy loser, could there be a considerably good starting point for a respark of your old feelings, only this time better because you grew in maturity.

The flaw would be that all these changes and everything were connected to the goal with getting her back, and that is not for certain. You must change and move on for the sake of changing and moving on, not for the sake of getting her back somehow.

good luck,
base_player
Author:  nightrider767 [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 9:05 pm ]
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Hey man,,, life's a learning game. We are always improving our skills. ALways. Even the best PUA is thinking about how to get better.

I would suggest some fundamentals for you to consider. First, PUA skills are real, they can't be an act. The most fundamental element is true self confidense. WIthout that nothing else works. If you fake it, the wheels will eventually fall off. You won't ever have that true good game because deep down you'll always be a afraid that people will find out that you're weak. I'm speaking from experience.

So get that going. Really confident guys could give a shit if some broad walks. BFD. Right? It doesn't really matter what happens with confident guys, if they screw up, if people laugh at them, if they're rejected. Being completely confident takes away the fear in approaching women, because nothing that can happen will bother you .

Remember, the person with the least amount of interest controls the relationship. So keep control brotha.

Oh and for the gal who walked on you. Sure, you can get her back. But the weird thing is this, when you get your game back on track enough to get her back,,,, getting her back won't seem like it's very important anymore. It'll be your choice then.
Author:  SeekNDestroy [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 5:52 pm ]
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Life is a learning lesson. We all have broken up sometime. All of us. And thats how we learn. We learn how to overcome these feelings of hate, love, jelousy, etc. Its a process, that we MUST live, and learn. Your relationship is over. You have to move on, life goes on my friend. Everything happens for a reason. She is not the one. Thats all.

Learn how to overcome your feelings. You can learn that. By thinking "why am I feeling like this". If you still love her, then you should end up any contact with her, and avoid her. Because you will be hurt if you dont.

Just live, have fun. And dont think about meeteing new girls to fill the emptyness you feel without her. Because when you start thinking of meeting new girls to fill this emptyness, it doesent work. Just put your self in a "Stand by mode". No relationhips for a while, and when you less expect it, you will find the one girl.

Sometimes when you dont search for something, you find it.

Bye ;)
Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 10:49 pm ]
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there are a lot of one-itis posts aren't there? i jsut keep seeing the same replies written in all of them lol
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