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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  What to do when girl is too easy?
I recently started talking to a girl that I knew on high school. I haven't talked to her for a while, so I gave a shot.

I opened on a social network I already had her and started DHVing.

Now she keeps giving IOIs, lots of them, literally screaming "You're awesome!".

So, I'm just going with the flow and not questioning anything, I'm showing that I'm awesome.

What's the right thing to do in a situation like this?
I don't know if I built attraction, comfort, etc. I only went with the flow. Natural and ultra confident.

This girl is VERY HOT, but it seems to me she lacks self steem based on the way she talks.

Have anyone been in such situation?
Author:  jurupa [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:53 pm ]
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I seen these girls more than once. And you are right that they do tend to suffer from low self esteem/confidence or are veryinsecure in themselves. The question here is what do you want with this girl? And can you deal with such a girl?
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 8:06 pm ]
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She's hot and looks like a cool person overall.

I really want to give her fun times.

She herself stated that her only fun is go to the movies with her (girl) friend and go to this friend's house.

My only problem is how to deal with her to get her to go out with me.

It's like I'm too much DHV and she's too much DLV. I don't know if it's healthy. Any PUA can comment on this?
Author:  Agent Whore 32 [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 9:04 pm ]
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you can qualify her and bring her value up, but dont fall into ljbf, also imaganing situations where you two are together somwhere, in egypt or the beach, role play, you and her against the world type of thing
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 11:52 pm ]
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Now I understand why some many IOIs!

I think she's heading to LJBF! See here: i-can-see-ljbf-coming-help-vt38887.html

Can anyone help me?
Author:  TheStreak [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 12:07 am ]
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I think my advice would be to stop speculating about LJBF and take some of the advice that Agent Whore has provided. There's no sense worrying about and thinking about her going the LJBF route until she actually does.

Granted, it's important to be prepared, but I also think that by speculating and dwelling on something that may or may not be true is setting yourself up for failure because it's hindering your confidence. (This is speculation mind you).

Also, "You're Awesome," does not always imply an IOI. I have lots of women friends, because I love women and because I find that they can help me with any number of things. The woman's psyche, fashion, and just having them around shows other women that you 'get it.' There's lots of them that frequently tell me I'm 'awesome.' That doesn't necessarily imply a physical connection.

Best of luck to you!
Author:  Chief [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 12:14 am ]
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Isolate, actively lower ASD (anti-slut defense) while building sexual tension and it's a done deal.
Author:  The Doctor [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:20 am ]
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Isolate, actively lower ASD (anti-slut defense) while building sexual tension and it's a done deal.
x2

Thank good someone said escalate... lots of ioi's plenty of comfort... time to start moving in for the kill.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:26 am ]
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Thanks for the answers!

How can I work on lowering ASD?
Author:  Chief [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:38 am ]
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Thanks for the answers!

How can I work on lowering ASD?
First you gotta figure out what you're looking for. If you're like me and have affairs, flings, and FWBs (Friends With Benefits) without actually having relationships, what works really well is to screen her for discreetness and imply or directly tell her that you're a discreet kinda guy. You must also subcommunicate (or even directly communicate) that you understand the never-ending internal struggle of a woman's sexual desires and her socially imposed inhibitions. You can do this best by ACTUALLY being sympathetic and understanding of how women have been sexually oppressed for far too long. :(
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