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Author:  1984 [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 5:52 am ]
Post subject:  Decided to go out and work some sets solo tomorrow night...
Is this normal? All of my friends are naturals who got lucky with 1 or 2 girls and are in serious relationships. Which of course means they cant go out with me to wingmen whenever Im ready. Is it ok to sarg solo? Im not even necessarily going out to f-close, or even k-close. Right now im just watching many Mystery Method videos and reading a lot of material. My first goal is to learn how to DHV and work the sets. Make it a habit of being in a public gathering where Attraction is possible. BTW Im going to a local college bar.


Objective;

Work the sets

Make it a habit to neg

Make new friends at the very least.
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Author:  Sun of Nothing [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:01 am ]
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Completely acceptable to sarge alone. Sometimes I find it easier to. Going out with the intention just to meet new people will actually make it easier to number close then get day 2's and such. It builds attraction when the girl(s) see you open by yourself and it builds rapport if you just go out without a care in the world and a good vibe.
Author:  Charlie0 [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:03 am ]
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I go solo all the time. I'm still looking for a good wingman.

It really sucks. Having someone else there motivates me to put my money where my mouth is and do what I say I'm going to do.

Not saying you can't. I've #closed quite a few girls and k-closed a few as well. Nothing more as of yet, but I'm still learning, so it's cool.
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:05 am ]
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Of course it's normal.

I like to solo in clubs (when single). Walk in with energy like you own the
place.

Stand in the "frame" of the doorway for at least 5 seconds, this conveys
power. How so? A little history for you all...

What do all the famous people like the Queen, the President, the Prince, all
have hanging above where they sit? A picture of themselves, it conveys
power.

So if you "frame" yourself when you enter any room, people will un-consciously
see you as someone with great power.

Back onto soloing...

Go in like you own the place. Open the "first" set that you see. Remember
the 3 second rule... also remember the "proximity" system from MM...
you want to use it all inside the club...

Of course you want to use it in the club, that is the basis for the MM.

I am tired, hope this helped to boost you up for your solo gaming.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:05 am ]
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Mystery videos? :roll: You looking to pickup guys or girls? I mean it. Once again, the problem is you guys have ZERO self-confidence. You hate yourselves. That is so sad. You can't stand being who you really are.

Instead of going out to pickup trashy girls I would suggest you first spend lots of time alone. Honestly, it works. Get to know who you really are. Find your own path. Your own interests. Direct your energy in that direction. ALL people are attracted towards authentic characters. No matter how f------ strange they are.

Few are comfortable going up to random girls and hitting on them. Few girls are comfortable with a random guy laying it on. I couldn't do it. Just isn't who I am. Those pickup videos you watch use actors and actresses.

In brief...If you are not totally comfortable and in YOUR zone you will look like an idiot. Will you get some tramp? Sure. If you hit on enough of them. Sexy is CONFIDENCE and LOVE in YOURSELF.
Author:  1984 [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 3:34 pm ]
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Mystery videos? :roll: You looking to pickup guys or girls? I mean it. Once again, the problem is you guys have ZERO self-confidence. You hate yourselves. That is so sad. You can't stand being who you really are.

Instead of going out to pickup trashy girls I would suggest you first spend lots of time alone. Honestly, it works. Get to know who you really are. Find your own path. Your own interests. Direct your energy in that direction. ALL people are attracted towards authentic characters. No matter how f------ strange they are.

Few are comfortable going up to random girls and hitting on them. Few girls are comfortable with a random guy laying it on. I couldn't do it. Just isn't who I am. Those pickup videos you watch use actors and actresses.

In brief...If you are not totally comfortable and in YOUR zone you will look like an idiot. Will you get some tramp? Sure. If you hit on enough of them. Sexy is CONFIDENCE and LOVE in YOURSELF.
MYSTERY is godlike dude, I agree with his ideas and innovations 110%!
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