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Author:  =Prize= [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Not hitting on friends girlfriends, how?
I'm often afraid of being perceived as hitting on friends' girlfriends. I think a very important part of male-to-male relationships is not hitting on friends' girlfriends.

The thing is I'm naturally flirtatious, and ambiguous in my language, and lately my mannerisms have become more alpha, and my cocky/funny radar is constantly running.

I'm not saying that I am great with women yet, but all these things I naturally do with both my friends and their girlfriends is the same I'm doing when I'm in clubs.

Is there like any guide out there on how to behave around friend's girlfriends so to not unintentionally attracting them or looking like I'm hitting on them?
Author:  Solomon II [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Not hitting on friends girlfriends, how?
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I'm often afraid of being perceived as hitting on friends' girlfriends.
Perception is exactly that. Just because someone thinks something, doesn't make it fact. The joy of being self-assured is that if someone has a problem with you being flirty around their gf and you aren't doing it on purpose to get with her, the problem is all theirs. You're innocent, you wouldn't do anything even if she threw herself at you cos she is with your friend. You can't put a stopper on your personality because some dude is insecure or overprotective of his girl.

As long as you're just being yourself and not actually trying to hit on them there's no problem, I mean your friends should know what you're like and trust both their gfs (and you) enough not to get jealous/suspicious/whatever. You can't change your personality to suit everyone at once now, can you? Just be yourself.
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 7:08 pm ]
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I agree with above poster. No one can blame you for being yourself.

It is all the other person's fault for being so damn insecure.

Don't change a thing about yourself. I myself have been in the same boat
as you are my friend. Your friends will either accept you for being you, or,
they won't.

If they don't accept you for you, and don't believe you when you tell them
that you are not "flirting" with their girlfriends. Then those "friends" have a
problem "trusting" their girlfriend (which makes your laying those girls easier).
And those said friends have a major insecurity issue, and trust issues.
Which, also, makes your laying their girlfriends (or, ex-girlfriends) easier.
Author:  cn_bn [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 5:22 pm ]
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Well it actually depends on what you and your friends have agreed on. Me and my friends never touch or flirt with another ones GF or ex.
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