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| Author: | blazerfan [ Fri Jan 16, 2009 6:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | What is best response to compliments about ur looks? |
If a chick says im cute, or have a good body, what do i respond with? I either say thanks or neg myself jokingly. But i feel like i should give her a compliment back. But if a chick says, "you're cute, then i say "you're cute too." It seems kind of like a lame response. Any better responses to compliments? |
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| Author: | ZEGlass [ Fri Jan 16, 2009 7:16 am ] |
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Okay, so this is straight out of "The Game," but it resonated with me. When somebody compliments you, just thank them. According to Style, it's the only self-assured response you can make. Here's my elaboration on that idea. If you embellish: "Thanks, but I don't look like anything special," you come across as needy and searching for additional validation. If you respond in kind, "Thanks. You look fabulous too," I can see several negative outcomes. One, you reinforce for the girl that giving a compliment is a means of getting validation in return. Two, you cheapen the exchange by turning it into a dull, rote conversation. |
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| Author: | Fidelity [ Fri Jan 16, 2009 8:10 am ] |
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you say "no you don't, your just attracted to me." *smile*. wait thats if they compliment your clothing or accessory. so what is a good line to say back if they compliment you on your looks, not clothing? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:45 pm ] |
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If girls compliment me I usually just end up agreeing with their opinion. I take the Cocky/Funny route here, and it evolves into more flirting. For example, here's some text messages I exchanged with this girl after I had lunch with her yesterday: her: you're kinda cute me: I'm very sexy her: yeah totally her(again): I'm sexier me: prove it her: how do you want me to prove it? me: we'll see her: what are u up to now me: class her: funsies! what class me: (didn't respond) That's a stylistic choice, though. I can imagine doing a bunch of other good stuff in response to a compliment. |
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| Author: | Joe19 [ Fri Jan 16, 2009 9:30 pm ] |
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I agree anything cocky/funny is ideal here. Example: Hey stop flirting with me like that. |
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| Author: | Drakelet [ Sat Jan 17, 2009 9:35 am ] |
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I've just thought of something; has anyone tried the "I have a girlfriend" answer (with a wink maybe)? Taking in mind girls use the "I have a boyfriend" one. |
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| Author: | eliec [ Sat Jan 17, 2009 10:17 am ] |
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Wooboy, i love getting this one -it's a curse really, people never see past my looks (if she's pretty, she'll probably feel the same way.... can you say "force teaming"?) -Thanks, but you still have some way to go -Thanks, why dont you buy me a drink? (if she negs you and says no, you can always say "too late to hide your opinion now, baby") -Wow, did you coordinate with the other girls in here? I havent stopped hearing that all evening -Thank, that's what happens when preparation meets nature. I'm sure you'll catch up |
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