How to Find and Stimulate the G Spot: All women will respond differently to G spot stimulation. Some may find it hard to get past the feeling of urinating while others go into ecstasy immediately upon touching the spot. It may be easier for a woman to get past the feeling of urination after she has had at least a small orgasm. As she is lying on her back, insert one or two fingers, preferably the middle finger for length, into the vagina with your palm up. Curl the finger(s) upward until a lumpy or slightly protruding area is felt. Massage both sides of the area while communicating with your partner what feels best. You may find that significant pressure is needed, to the point of stretching the walls of the vagina up until the pubic bone is felt. You may also find that a constant, motionless touch to the G spot is all it takes to bring a woman to orgasm.

Penile Stimulation of the G spot: When using the penis to stimulate the G spot, a little can go a long way. If you can get the right position, it only takes 2 to 4 inches of penis to hit it just right. Deep penetration could miss the spot completely.

Some recommended positions are:

1. Have your lover lie on her back. Put her legs over your shoulders. Insert your penis no more that three inches so the head is on the G spot. Use short pelvic thrusts or slow probing motions until she feels a sensation of more pleasure. You may try rubbing her clit with your thumb and pressing on the outside of her stomach right over the G spot to add more pleasure.

2. Have your lover lie on her back with her legs over your thighs . Sit with your knees bent as low as you can, while her lower back or butt rests on your thighs. You may try holding her hips for support. She can recline or sit up. Move your penis upward and around toward the G spot with short pelvic thrusts or slow probing motions until she feels a sensation of more pleasure.

3. Have your lover lie on her stomach with her legs together or spread. Experiment with her sitting up or lying down. Also experiment with her lying flat or with her butt stuck up in the air. Move your penis downward and around toward the G spot with short pelvic thrusts or slow probing motions until she feels a sensation of more pleasure.

(The above sketch depicts a position for G spot stimulation not anal stimulation.)

Try variations of these methods lying on their sides facing each other or from behind. While facing each other, deep, passionate kissing could intensify the experience dramatically.