All I can say is DHV, Confidence, and a little AMOG. You have to be able to captivate people when you speak so if your having trouble keeping them engaged I would consider looking up some "Story Telling" tips just so you can get the concept of story telling. As for the "Other-Guy", you need to make it seem like your the more exciting one between you two. Speak more clearer and always question what someone says, especially if it sounds stupid, those are usually your chances of displaying "Alpha Male". Now if the girl is who your trying to impress, do what all the other MPUA's do an talk to other women. This way she sees that your not just talking to her and that talking to women comes natural to you. Give us an update when you can.
Good Luck
PUA 4 LIFE
