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Author:  dark one [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  One night stand should you call or test?
After a one night stand if you have a number would you call or text and say any thing? I dont see a relationship coming from it but she was a nice girl and we both got along really well! plus thers a good chance I will see her agian....
Author:  Solomon II [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 5:25 am ]
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I'm definately the man to ask about this :mrgreen:

Yes, you should call her later that day and ask how she's doing, have a bit of a chat and talk about getting together again. Some will want to, some won't. The ones you do meet up with again, you can turn it into an ongoing thing but they usually fizzle out after a while as they have a habit of getting themselves a boyfriend. Sometimes the girl already has a bf and will tell you after you have sex, that or the next day before she leaves... I usually call it off if that's the case, but your morals may differ to mine so you can do as you wish.
Author:  dark one [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 8:05 pm ]
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see my thing is I dont want to look like a creeper haha Because I really dont want any thing with this girl but I feel like I should say hey and just make sure if I see her agian its not weird....thers a good chance we will run into each other.
Author:  Solomon II [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 8:49 pm ]
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Just call her and tell her you had fun and she's a really nice girl, but you don''t want it to turn into a "thing". That's how I'd do it, if she's mature she'll understand.
Author:  Brad- [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 9:30 pm ]
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I text... Or nothing...

I'm on the road a lot, so I often won't see them. But if I do, and we hook up, I'll usually try to send them some sort of text the next day.

Either call back humor, or an emoticon.

Like "Brat!"

or just ":P"

Then the ball is in their court, and you aren't really giving them anything to grasp onto.
Author:  dark one [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 11:53 pm ]
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I just shot her a text saying "hey smoker. how are you feelin today?" She smokes.

her: who is this?

Me: Jeff the random bar guy haha Just wanted to make sure you wer feelin ok you looked like you wer in rough shape when I droped you off.

her: haha Random bar guy lol Im fine now yesterday just sucked. Thanks for the concer.

and then she sent a smiley face....

I have no sent any thing since her last msg.
Author:  NYSFINEST01 [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 11:55 pm ]
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I don't call but I do send a text telling her that I have something going on that night and if she wants to come along she can. This makes her know that you have a life going on and if she doesn't join you then you already have something planned and you'll hit her up later. F it man, PUAs don't have time to beat around the bush. Well not all the time
Author:  Brad- [ Thu Jan 15, 2009 12:09 am ]
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I just shot her a text saying "hey smoker. how are you feelin today?" She smokes.

her: who is this?

Me: Jeff the random bar guy haha Just wanted to make sure you wer feelin ok you looked like you wer in rough shape when I droped you off.

her: haha Random bar guy lol Im fine now yesterday just sucked. Thanks for the concer.

and then she sent a smiley face....

I have no sent any thing since her last msg.
Nice, that's about as far as you need to take it...

If the sex was good, she'll prolly text or call you to meet up again, but you don't really need to do anything here. And if you see her out again, you left it on good terms...
Author:  dark one [ Thu Jan 15, 2009 12:17 am ]
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Ye forsure well I live in a college city and Im out at the bars atleast once a week so ther is a good chance we will deff run into each other! plus I never like to leave on bad term in case she knows people I know and ther is a good chance she does.

If I see her in the bar I will deff say hey and then bounce from her and go party
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