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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Is HB10 interested in me? (Need answer today!!!! Thanks)
Hi friends!

I recently added a HB10 at a social network (just like myspace or something). And then she gave me her MSN (I didn't ask for).

I've been doing normal talking with her, just like friends. No PUA stuff. But already trying to get to know her.

But today I had a interesting conversation with her at MSN:
Quote:
HB10 says:
how are you?
ME says:
i'm fine
ME says:
and you?
HB10 says:
I'm great =D
HB10 says:
what fun stuff did you do today?
ME says:
oh... didn't have a nice day... at morning I had to go to the university to solve a few problems... I stayed a long time in the queue to solve these hehehe
ME says:
and your day? how was it?
HB10 says:
aheuhaue just like yours
HB10 says:
went to school to solve a few problems
HB10 says:
and also went to solve a few things about my cell phone, because I lost it
HB10 says:
was a little boring
HB10 says:
what will you do tomorrow?
ME says:
I was thinking about going to the mall
HB10 says:
what mall ?
ME says:
(name of the mall)
ME says:
would you like to meet me there? like walk, talk, maybe an ice cream (it's really hot these days! hehehe)
HB10 says:
hmm... I'll be there at 18:00 because I'll watch a movie with some friends
HB10 says:
that's it... at afternoon I can't go because I already set up a meeting with a (female) friend
HB10 says:
but at 18:00 I'm there!
ME says:
hmmm... nice
ME says:
what's your phone number? maybe we can see each other
ME says:
I need to see at what time I'll be there... if that's the case I'll call you
HB10 says:
(her number) that's my mother's number, but I'm using it
HB10 says:
Ok
ME says:
ok ^^
ME says:
write down mine too: (my number)
After that we kept talking normal stuff, and I said I would call her tomorrow morning to say if I WAS REALLY GOING TO THE MALL.

So, there are a few things to consider:
* Original conversation was not in english (I translated it, so some words might have lost meaning)
* She's not from my country, but she speaks my language fairly well because she's being living here for some time. Although I don't know if she's shy to express emotions in my language. :)
* She's younger than me.
* Text in bold was written at the same time, so we were both thinking that at the same time.

Now, I need you to help me understand if she's got any attraction to me already. If not, how can I build this?
Also, what should I do to meet her tomorrow without having her friends to bore us (destroy the obstacles)?

PLEASE ANSWER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. I NEED TO ACT FAST!!
Author:  BamBam [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 4:08 am ]
Post subject: 
Who cares if she already has attraction even though theres no doubt that there is some. About meeting her, i would probably pass this time around if shes going to be with her friends it might be hard to control the frame.

Its your choice i just think under these circumstances you dont stand a good chance to ramp up the attraction, and you might have trouble isolating
Author:  antic [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 4:10 am ]
Post subject: 
It's hard to say if you've never met her in person. I think you should chill out. I seriously doubt someone could be totally attracted to you just by talking online.

You have to meet up with her. The fact that she gave you her phone number means that she trusts you enough to meet up. So that is a good sign. Just go to the mall and do what you wanna do there. Make sure your not just going there to see her and don't be all AFC if she doesn't answer your call. If you do meet up with her take her along to do some of the things you planned.

If she brings friends so what, you can build comfort with all of them. If you play it right the friends will think your a cool guy. Just be fun, random, and most importantly yourself! Can't be that hard.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 1:07 pm ]
Post subject: 
Holly crap!

I called and someone else answered the phone! I guess it's her father!
He was talking in a very strange way! I had bad time trying to understand him! That's what you get when you try to date chicks from other countries! :lol:

At least I got the phone from her house. But I'm afraid I'll not understand her. What should I do?
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 3:57 pm ]
Post subject: 
Ok. Went out with HB10, and there was one guy I already knew in the group of her friends.

So I started talking with the guy and I kind of ignoring her.

Then she smiled to me and came for a hug and said "Hi! How are you?" and asked "So, are going to watch a movie too?" and I said "Yep! I think not the same movie as you... but yeah!"

And then she was like "Nice!" with a confused face.

Then I was walking around with them and building comfort with her friends.

Then she suddenly started kinoing the guy I already knew just in front of me while I was talking to the other girl that was there.

So, later I said "I have to go back to my friends. See you..."

And when I arrived home she said "Hey! I really liked to meet you!" and gave me her real number (not the father's number).

And I answed like "I liked to meet you too. So, are you already using this new number?" -- I think I should have played something here. I was being TOO NICE.

Then trying to fix this I send a message "Nice! So, I can just flood your SMS box now, heh? Just kidding... I'm not that bad! xD"

But don't know if this was really effective (I'm still learning, rAFC...).

What should be my next move?
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 6:39 pm ]
Post subject: 
Should I call her?
Author:  aseanaxe [ Thu Jan 15, 2009 10:39 am ]
Post subject: 
I'm an rAFC too...

But I think she tested u, and she should be punished for it. How about going out to meet new girls, just leave her for a while?
Maybe next time u accidentally run into them with ur girl(s) on ur arms, things will be different?

I'm looking forward to hear ur story soon. It's interesting :D

PS: I don't think saying a joke like "I flood ur MSN box now" and right after apolozing is not a good idea. It makes ur look uncool. If u think u r saying a joke that can not be thought as a joke without u saying "it's a joke" (omg sry my grammar :lol: ), then don't use it.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Jan 15, 2009 2:38 pm ]
Post subject: 
I think I kind of fucked up the situation.

She was showing some IOI's but then I talked to her on MSN again it was like that:
Quote:
ME: hey ^^
HER: Heyyy =D
HER: how are you?
ME: I'm fine
ME: and you?
HER: I'm fine too ^^
ME: =D
ME: How was your day?
HER: it was cool
HER: ^^
HER: and yours?
ME: good too... I stayed watching some movies ^^
ME: and how was the movie that day? Did you like it?
HER: Loveeddd
HER: =D
ME: nice =D
ME: too bad we didn't had to much time to talk that day
ME: I think it would be nice if we meet together again
HER: true
HER: ^^
ME: hmm... what you gonna do tomorrow?
HER: tomorrow I go to a birthday party
HER: ^^
ME: ahh ok
I think I did something wrong here. She was being kind of cold. Just answering my questions and not asking like before.

Is this still recoverable? Should I just leave her alone for a while and see what I get?
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