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| Author: | aballa [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 9:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | IOI or friendly flirting??? |
I was out the other night and some strong kino started up between myself and a girl I have classes with. We have flirted quite a few times before during the day and have had a few text conversations but this is the first night we were out together. She was touching me on the chest and arms as we interacted so I figured I would take it a step further and took it upon myself to put my arm around her waist and shoulders a few times and she reciprocated my actions. When we walked back to campus I gave her my coat and without asking she started rubbing my back and shoulders as if to keep me warm. Do you guys think these actions are IOIs???? |
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| Author: | JaX302 [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 10:45 pm ] |
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Most def. You should take it to the next level before the interaction stales. |
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| Author: | aballa [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 10:57 pm ] |
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Any suggestions on taking it to that next level? |
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| Author: | Philly B [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:13 pm ] |
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I'd say go for a kiss close next time the two of you are alone. While kino is a good sign, touching your chest is a very good sign and it sounds like you're good to go. |
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| Author: | Rhum [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:18 pm ] |
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What you should have done is kiss-close with her. She is definitely interested and probably still waiting for you to make your move. You can either do Mystery's kiss close or you could have done a compliance test by squeezing her hand, if she squeezes back then ask her how would she rate herself as a kisser. She gives you a number(probably a high number), go in for the kiss, then neg her after and hug her for the neg. |
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| Author: | JaX302 [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 3:19 am ] |
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Yeah, just do whatever feels right. You definitely have to take the initiative to further the relationship though..especially in this case, where it's pretty evident that's what she wants. |
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| Author: | martni [ Tue Jan 13, 2009 2:29 pm ] |
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Quote: She gives you a number(probably a high number), go in for the kiss, then neg her after and hug her for the neg.
That's a tease, not a neg. Why would you want to neg/punish her for kissing you? |
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