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Was doing amazing!! then got cold feet, now feel dumb!
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Author:  dark one [ Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Was doing amazing!! then got cold feet, now feel dumb!

Ok so tonight I was at the bar with my budies and I spotted one of the most beautiful woman/people I have ever seen! Im not exajurating at all this girl was drop dead beautiful! well all my budies wer sitting around talking about how amazing this girl and her friends are and I looked around and noticed that ther wer alot of guy just sitting looking at the girls but not making a move.....so I said fuck it!

Ok so I walked over and simply said hello and said my name....then we started talking about age and I told her she looked about 28 (she was 21) and she looked at me in shock! lol well by the end of the convo I got her to give me a kiss on the cheek and she was actually a really cool girl!

Ok so here was my problem! I spotted her later in the night and was about to go talk to her when I got cold feet! I mean felt like such an AFC! she was with all her friends and I felt like if i went over they would look at me funny....and I didnt know what I was going to say.....now I feel like an idot! because I just let this stunning girl get away.

What could I have done? I mean when you see a girl the second time what do you say? I felt like I would be creepy to walk back over....

Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Sun Jan 11, 2009 2:03 pm ]
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Just go over and talk, you liked her personality, right ?

If you're thinking about what to say, try to imagine it from her point of view;
How would it look, theoretically, if a guy you'd spoken to earlier met you later on in the evening, said "hey, (her name) (question either about how her night has been or a funny commentary to something she said earlier) " ?

Don't assign her higher value than yourself, she's not special. ;)
If you're the kind of guy who feel comfortable giving people nicknames, try this: ask her what she think would be her name if she was a stripper...
Then, if she says a name like Cindy, tell her that, no, she looks more like a Rose, or some other cliche stripper name.

Next time you see her, call her by her stripper name.

Author:  dark one [ Sun Jan 11, 2009 7:46 pm ]
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Ye good call....I was super hyped because I was able to walk over and build attraction with the girl and her friends because a year ago I would not have even thought about it.

I was thinking about it and I think my budies actually draged me down and thats why I didnt go back over....non of them are into PUA and when I said "hey lets go over and talked to these girls" they all became big AFC's which then I think rubed off on me! It gave me time to think of all the negative shit that could happen.

Im going to write down what it is I did wrong and then create a game plan for the next time somthing like that happens.

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