my main question is kind of how much does it take for you to mess up your chances with a woman entirely? I mean like if you fail to approach within 3 secs is the chance gone forever? Or if you one time show yourself a little insecure or needy just once, or if she catches you stare at her and you dont keep eye contact or something.
For example my own problem: i started in a new class about 4 months ago, and there was a really fine girl there that i really liked, and instantly i started getting tons of ioi's, i went to parties where she was, we spoke alot and got along pretty well. Hell after 2 months in the same class as her she broke up with her b/f, i have no idea if it was a coincidence but i really dont think so. Now things between me and her have kind of just faded away, though i still get some curious looks from her from across the room and stuff. Well because i go to the same class as her at school i see her everyday and that is not really a good thing for me, i dont allways look my best every morning and i might not be in the mood and i cant really manage to game her as i do some days. When she sees me having a bad day like that, is that like really bad? And i wonder, do you think i still have a chance with this girl? And what should i do?
