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| Author: | GQute [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 5:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Introducing a friend to the pua community? |
So I've only known one of my roommates for a semester of college and he broke up with his girlfriend (of less than a month) about a month ago. While talking with him, he has hinted, but not directly said, that he would rather avoid LTR's for now and just enjoy being "single" (meaning he wants no commitments). He's more of an invert when it comes to discussing relationships or girls in general but he has has alot of untapped natural game that he doesn't even know about. I feel he would be great with women if he read up on the pua community and would also make a great wing for sarging. But not fully knowing how he will react, we share the same inner-social circle, if he responds negatively this could put me in an unfavorable position. My question is, do you think I should try to talk to him about it or just leave it alone. And if so, how do you think I should approach the subject? BTW- he knows that I hook up with girls on more than a sparatic occasion and he himself has even done some hooking up with his ex after their break-up (not because he wants to get back together though) but called this action a mistake after doing so. So I really don't know how to read him. |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:56 am ] |
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Don't try to sit him down and teach him, just give him a little advice here and there. Don't mention or explain PU. Just give him little tips and let him assume they came from you. Most importantly take him out and let him observe you sarging and it will just kind of rub off on him. Believing is seeing. Monkey see, monkey do. |
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| Author: | dark one [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 10:22 am ] |
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Non of my friends know....I guess you could say its greedy of me but being a PUA comes with alot of responsibility and many of my friends dont have enouph respect for women and would use the power for bad not good. Also many people would not want to put the time in that is needed to be a good PUA and so why tell somone who doesnt care? Its like buying a gibson guitar for somone who has no interest in music. The PUA game will IMO always be some what under ground because alot of people look down on it, or dont understand....the funny thing is that we are doing the same thing every other guy out there is but with skill. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 10:34 am ] |
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If he reaches out, take his hand and lead him to water. No need to splash him while he sits. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 10:43 am ] |
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I have tried and they usually buy a few books but because they have little desire to actually change they won't. |
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| Author: | GQute [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 8:39 pm ] |
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fair enough, thanks for the advice guys |
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| Author: | Philly B [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 9:00 pm ] |
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A friend told me about it. All he did, though, was hand me The Game and told me to read it. I'd suggest doing something like that. I read this great book and I think you'd get a kick out of it. If he shows interest afterwards bring him in. |
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| Author: | Carbon24 [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:21 am ] |
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philly b said it just toss him the game or better yet SHOW HIM do something amazing that most AFC"S could only dream about. then he might ask how you did it then you tell him a little bit the downside is... if you do tell him and he rejects then he can use it against you and completely destroy your game. so only tell people you can trust FULLY |
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| Author: | Roobosh [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 2:34 pm ] |
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using the game as a test seems like a good method, if he says its bullplop then fair enough, if not he will probsbly look up the community p.s its a mainstream book as well so there is no real risk |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:05 pm ] |
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Personally, I say you let him see you do very well in field. If he asks or seems like he's wondering how you do it. Then toss him The Game and tell him to read it. Like Chief said if he reaches out lead him to water. Still, you can do something to see if he'll reach out like take him out with you one night. Open everyone, have fun, keep him with you, and show him how it's done!  Don't try to force it on him. People have to really "want" to do this to get good and enjoy it. |
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