Still think money is nothing?
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 3:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Money means nothing |
meh you are here now, money means a little bit but barely worth noticing in my opinion. I have always believed/been forced into shoes string gaming alas I have realized an ounce of charm is worth a ton of gold, literally I see guys at clubs flashing money around but at the end of the day money and the objects they buy become their personality. A lot of people fall into the trap of believing a great suit and watch will solve their problems, it wont but it can help. I started a little experiment today on whether money matters, so went out in jeans and a trashed t-shirt, in a word I destroyed. Fresh from the night out I would love to post an unbiased opinion but I see no need, unless women flock to me when I rock rich style all's good. Also I feel I should push this further, I was thinking go sarging in a binbag but that seems too easy what with all the opening I would get and ability to make a joke of it. So if anyone can think of a handycap along the lines of broke game vs rich game I am all for it and I will remember to get some footage next time to silence all the people sat at home calling this BS. Much love xxx |
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| Author: | practice [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 5:26 am ] |
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I totally agree, I think money is not the end all be all, in fact it has caused some girls to get weirded out on me! I had a girl tell me one time she felt we couldn't connect because I took her to a nice restaurant. o_0 |
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| Author: | Nogame [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 6:20 am ] |
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In the words of Tyler Durden the PUA. Money isnt going to do shit. Once you get the girl home and she sees sprawling mansions/nice things shes going to suddenly go "well this guy is loaded, im going to stick around and not put out" because now shes into this whole "gold digger persona" thinking she can get more out of you than she thought before. MONEY IN EXCESS IS A CONVENIENCE, not a necessity. It can hurt you if you are using it the wrong way(Nice cars, nice clothes, nice houses) Use the money in good ways, use it to expand yourself instead of creating material "value". Social Conditioning+Limiting beliefs for the lose. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:47 am ] |
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exactly and there was me thinking I would get slated by the rolex crew for this lol |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 10:17 am ] |
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Quote: In the words of Tyler Durden the PUA. Money isnt going to do shit. Once you get the girl home and she sees sprawling mansions/nice things shes going to suddenly go "well this guy is loaded, im going to stick around and not put out" because now shes into this whole "gold digger persona" thinking she can get more out of you than she thought before. MONEY IN EXCESS IS A CONVENIENCE, not a necessity. It can hurt you if you are using it the wrong way(Nice cars, nice clothes, nice houses) Use the money in good ways, use it to expand yourself instead of creating material "value". It amazes me how many people don't get this. So many people think money is everything or almost everything and it ain't. And then they wonder why they are not happy. I can't being to tell you how many girls around here in Orange County go for guys that flash money. Its like everyone of them is an long term escort or something. I am not saying all of the girls here are, but at lot of them seem to be tho. Its really easy to filter out such girls to. The only problem with that is that it servilely limits how many girls can go after.
Social Conditioning+Limiting beliefs for the lose. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 10:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Money means nothing |
Jaybot - You may want to buy some clothes from goodwill/Salvation Army and don't fix up or style your hair any. Also don't wear any accessories either. That should help you with the don't have money look lol. |
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| Author: | Watermelon [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 11:13 am ] |
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Still think money is nothing? |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 12:25 pm ] |
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Watermelon do you want a girl that has a relationship with you or your wallet? |
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| Author: | Watermelon [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 12:44 pm ] |
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I am not talking about girl or relationship, I am talking about the finest things in life. I need money for myself. I will never give the girl any lol, should she keep dreaming. |
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| Author: | Dangerboy [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 1:09 pm ] |
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my opinion is somewhat mixed here. it depends on what you want. if you're going after one night stands and you're not looking for anything long term now, then money definately does help to some extent... but as someone already pointed out, that would pretty much be like paying for a series of escourts. if you're looking for something meaningful then cash doesnt really matter, unless you have a lot of debt... yes, being wealthy does show that you're successful, which is a dhv i suppose, but being happy with what you have is all thats really needed. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 2:21 pm ] |
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Quote: I am not talking about girl or relationship, I am talking about the finest things in life. I need money for myself. I will never give the girl any lol, should she keep dreaming. lol. You missed the point of the thread which is that you don't need money and expensive things to get girls. There is nothing wrong with wanting the finer material things in life, but when you bring a girl into your rich/wealthy life style she will want to be part of it or else she will walk. I am not saying you need to buy her things or be her sugar daddy. But she would want you take her for a ride in your Bentley and take her to the finer restaurants you go to etc etc. Also if you do plan on getting married get a prenup.
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| Author: | The Wicker Man [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 2:29 pm ] |
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Quote: You missed the point of the thread which is that you don't need money and expensive things to get girls.
Unless it's £1000 for a bootcamp - and when you're no better than you was before, then money matters very, very much.
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 4:01 pm ] |
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Quote: Jaybot - You may want to buy some clothes from goodwill/Salvation Army and don't fix up or style your hair any. Also don't wear any accessories either. That should help you with the don't have money look lol.
Good plan, I may have to rock out crappy clothing next time I am out. I reckon sweatpants and a flannel shirt
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| Author: | RR [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 4:41 pm ] |
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Quote: I am not talking about girl or relationship, I am talking about the finest things in life. I need money for myself. I will never give the girl any lol, should she keep dreaming.
I cry BS at you son! This website is ALL about Girls and Relationships.You have major league AA. So hang it all on the fact you don't have a flash car or a Breitling watch. I therefore say, why do you even bother comoing back here. The other thread had loads of advice for you and all you did is dodge the questions and repeat the mantra that without luxury goods it's impossible to get a girl. 
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| Author: | Watermelon [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 7:58 pm ] |
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LOL, I never said that. I don't need those luxury goods to get a girl  I need them to feel good.
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