Well, didn't really know where to write this. Moderators may move it if you find it misplaced.
Okey, to start from the top.... I've never before approached a girl. In my life! (okey, maybe a slight lie.. I once thought a girl was my friend and called at her using his name.. Or so my friends say, because I was so drunk I spent the next 5 hours throwing up
) But tonight I finally did it. I just walked up to a 3 set and started talking. Sure, I've had a few beers in to the night, and I had to have a friends support to do it, but still... 
(Notice, I'm really proud of this 
). The girl I was aiming for was.. maybe a 7 or 8.. In the U.S maybe 9 ( Yes, we have extraordinary beautiful girls in Sweden). So, I just walked up to them. I think she was checking out a older guy who stood behind me, but I just didn't give a fuck, and started chatting. I've read about some routines online and opened with:"Hi, you seem to be some good girl. Mind if I ask you a question?" (No wait for an answer".
"You know, I've got a buddy who like broke up with his girl about a week ago, and now he's seeing someone else, but he still keeps fotographs of his ex in his drawer. Do you think that's wrong? I mean, souldn't you let those things go?"
3 set: "Yeah, I would like be so pissed if someone did that to me. I would burn those pictures of his ex right away" And so on.. We kept it on for about a minute about our opinions on this thing. I think I got in pretty good there. It totally worked and I think I'm gonna go with this one a LOT
Anyway. I got the PERFECT things happening for me after that. This 3 set I was talking to were sitting by a table, and besides that table there were another set (Didn't care shit about them) and the girl sitting right next to the HB I was trying to talk to just walked away
. So I got the seat righ tnext to her, and I thought like: "Shit, wtf should I do now". So I sat down beside her and were totally of. I haven't memorised how you should d exactly, so I guessed I skipped a lot of things and went straight for "The cube".I said:
"Hey, Would you like to do a test, just to find out what kind of person you are?" I asked her.
"What? A test? You mean like what? What sould I do? I dont knoooow...."
"Well, I will ask you a few questions and I promise you, I can totally tell what kind of person you are afterwards."
(After some more secounds of discussion)
"okey, Test me"
I noticed how her friends were giving eachother that "Man, this guy's a total creep. Plus that he's like.. you know 3 years younger, we can't allow this"-look.
But I just went on, remember, this is the first time EVER I've had the confidence to talk to a unknown girl.
So I did the cube. Guess it doesn't really matter what she answered. I couldn't remember what to say about the different answers anyway. I just improvised (Read the "Full facts on cold reading", by Ian Rowland, and you'll understand) and said what all girls want to hear, like: "You fell quite confident at many times, and you find it easy to connect with other people", "The hore represents your lover, you want to have a good looking guy who's independent and know how to handle a woman" etc. Bullshit, bullshit busllshit
Anyway, She was blown away by my answers and turned towards me in a positive way (before she was sitting kind of arms crossed and legs pointing an other direction.. I've got my body language down properly, and I can say that she totally changed her attitude towards me after this chat). Still, she was about 19 or 20 and I've just turned 18, and it's considered really wierd to have a younger boy for a girl here, don't know how it is in other countries, but here it's almost impossible to get a 1 or 2 years older wuite hot chick. So I figured my chances were low. Especially since her friends seemed to have a hostile attitude towards me. But HB 7-8 seemed interested and asked if I ran this test on everyone I met and so. We talked for not so long, and for some reason, I remembered and thought that it would be a good idea to walk away. (You know, taking away yourself and bla.bla.bla) So I went:"Well, my friends seem to be waiting for me, so I gotta go, see you later"
And I shook hands and left them. I can't even remember their names right now, doesn't matter anyway.. And I walked away, grabbed a beer and sat down with my friend..
That was about it.. My first approach EVER. She was hot to, and responded in a very positive way. I really truelly belived I was gonna crash and burn, but I didn't really do that
So I feel Sooooo happy right now I'm going to try this next weekend to, now that I feel more confident that noone will blow my head of if I talk to them But to the question now (finally!). What should I have done after "the cube".. starting to make kino? bonding with her friends? just talking to her about everything 'til she seemed to be bored?
Some constructive critisism would be nice
Peace out, from a happy first time-sarger