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I feel like i shouldnt settle for a girl that is below a 9
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Author:  blazerfan [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 10:26 am ]
Post subject:  I feel like i shouldnt settle for a girl that is below a 9
Just a rant..

I've hooked up with 15 girls and i consider pretty much all of them attractive except maybe 3 were a little beer goggle-ish. But the rest were definately good looking girls and nothing wrong with them. After i got to 12 girls i pretty much stopped trying to hook up with decent looking girls and my standards are high since there is no point anymore.

However, my sex life is getting pretty crappy with my new standards. Since with girls i would consider an 8, i didnt have to do any of the work they would come to me. But with 9's i usually have to do the work because they want a man with confidence and good looks. And i more so have the good looks then the confidence. I have the problem of sucking up too much to a girl im extremely attracted to. With decent looking girls i dont suck up at all since i dont really give a crap and that makes them attracted to me more, but with super attractive girls i put the pussy on a pedestal.

Like i could just settle with an 8 since it's my comfort zone and i could be happy. And usually once im in a relationship and get to know their personality, they become 10x more attractive to me. But i feel i should hold out. I don't know where im going with this... rant off.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:56 pm ]
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With decent looking girls i dont suck up at all since i dont really give a crap and that makes them attracted to me more, but with super attractive girls i put the pussy on a pedestal.


...and not giving a crap is the ONLY mindset to have when dealing with average or super attractive girls.

Guys seem to think that their is something special about super hot girls (which is why they tend to be put on pedestals), but trust me, there isn't.

I've interacted with girls on all different levels of the attraction scale. Guess which ones I had the most fun with and were less of a burden.
Author:  Cinnamon Spice [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 5:27 pm ]
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I think you need to work on getting to know the girls better.

You say that once you know their personality the girls become more attractive, so learn their personality right off the bat.
Qualification questions, things like that, can help you get to know them better, which in turn will let you find them more attractive.

If you don't find enough attractive girls you nee to make them more attractive to you.

A few questions too:
Are you only using Night Game?
Are you sarging the same place or places?

Cinnamon
Author:  Philly B [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 8:06 pm ]
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For relationships, physical attraction is a needed quality. If you aren't attracted to the person physically then things will just go downhill, although if you get to know this person, then sometimes they'll be more attractive. I wasn't attracted to a gal I worked with a few years back until I got to know her a lil more, I was surprised at how much of a difference it made.

My opinion would similar to Cinnamon's: to not worry about trying to get a girlfriend, go to a bar and just talk to girls without the intent of picking up, just to meet new friends. Aside from having potential with them, they might invite you to hang out on a later date with their friends and you might meet someone then. Being invited by her is good social proof.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 11:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I feel like i shouldnt settle for a girl that is below a
Quote:
Just a rant..

I've hooked up with 15 girls and i consider pretty much all of them attractive except maybe 3 were a little beer goggle-ish. But the rest were definately good looking girls and nothing wrong with them. After i got to 12 girls i pretty much stopped trying to hook up with decent looking girls and my standards are high since there is no point anymore.

However, my sex life is getting pretty crappy with my new standards. Since with girls i would consider an 8, i didnt have to do any of the work they would come to me. But with 9's i usually have to do the work because they want a man with confidence and good looks. And i more so have the good looks then the confidence. I have the problem of sucking up too much to a girl im extremely attracted to. With decent looking girls i dont suck up at all since i dont really give a crap and that makes them attracted to me more, but with super attractive girls i put the pussy on a pedestal.

Like i could just settle with an 8 since it's my comfort zone and i could be happy. And usually once im in a relationship and get to know their personality, they become 10x more attractive to me. But i feel i should hold out. I don't know where im going with this... rant off.
I knwo your ranting and all and I do think you should get a girl that you find attractive both physically and personality wise. But at the same time if you limit what girls you will only settle down with you will be single for a long time.
Author:  Blanc [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 2:03 am ]
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main thing for you is to just treat all the girls the same do suck up just because here hotter because thats what everyone else does and you dont wanna be like everyone else you wanna stick out. so if ur game works good on 8's i wouldnt change it up for 9's or 10's just do what you've always done because she may be a 10 and then as soon as you talk to her, her personality may be total shit so she drops to a 7 so say something like "what do u have going for you beside your looks" and she how she responds.
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