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Author:  Trance- [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 2:48 am ]
Post subject:  Best Friend need help asap

So the story is that I'm a Junior in High School and i've just join the online community but my bud Sailor and i have been practicing our tactics and taking down notes and good openers for a good 2 months, yeah I'm a beginner. I'm told I'm attractive, by many of girls but only in the "just friends" stage any ways AMOGs are a huge threat and keeping the conversation interesting is a problem... On to the best friend story. i met her freshman year and ever since then we've had weird chemistry that i don't have with anyone else... like we would go to movie parties ( yeah were "good kids", no drinking or smoking) and she would cuddle up against me, i would put my arm around her and idk just everything seemed right when were together. we could talk about anything and i get the feeling i've known her my whole life. But a Big conflice weve had is that her boyfriends don't trust me cus were so close and everyone in school think we have a great big secret relationship but we dont. so a few months ago i think i've come to realize that im in love with her. but she has recently broken up with a boyfriend. So this new years eve she had a party and of course i was invited. i hadn't seen her over the winter break at all and i planned to tell her how i felt. So at the party we chilled in the hot tub and shot fire works off, just fun stuff and as we watched the ball drop, we were sitting on the couch together with my arm around her... and she kept looking up at me like she wanted something and i could tell she wanted a New Years Eve Kiss, but i wasn't 100% sure and we have never kissed before... anyway i gave her a look like i wanted it too but then she wrote in her phone " im not sure" and she let me she it. afterwards we ended up in her room alone and i told her " hey X so these past few months ive realized that I'm falling in love with you". She stood there with a shocked look on her face. "are you kidding me?" she said. "no I'm not and...." we were interupted by one of her friends walking in and it didn't take too long for her to figure out what was happening. so i leave the room and continue with the party as best i can. X and i meet up later and finally talk about what were gonna do. " When did you start feeling like this?" she asked " a few months ago" i said... then she said the most shocking thing i have heard ever. " well... i too have strong feeling for you... i based this party all round you coming and us two maybe getting together but i was not sure if you liked me as much as i do you... but now I'm confused on what to do..." ok so we chat for a while and it just stuff that like all this time why have we been such good friends and junk.. but in the end it seems she realizes that i love her and want her to be mine but she doesn't want another bad relationship in high school and that our friendship is way to valuable to just chance that one bad relationship will ruin it... that was the new years night and earlier today i thought id pay her a visit at work... she works at a hometown coffee shop that isn't busy at all during the day. so i show up and use a good opener that me and sailor found. her face instantly shines as i walk in. and sitting there for 2 hours or so just flirting and talking about everything thats happening and more... i leave with a hug....


sorry I'm very nervous cus i think she might be the one. and i don't want to screw this up like fellas i need help.... right now i'm trying to play a lil hard to get and i think she might be doin the same but our whole conversation at the coffee shop i kept her speechless like in a good way. i made her realize that im the prize and shes gona need to chase me to win me

Author:  kasabi [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best Friend need help asap

Quote:
So the story is that I'm a Junior in High School and i've just join the online community but my bud Sailor and i have been practicing our tactics and taking down notes and good openers for a good 2 months, yeah I'm a beginner. I'm told I'm attractive, by many of girls but only in the "just friends" stage any ways AMOGs are a huge threat and keeping the conversation interesting is a problem...

On to the best friend story. i met her freshman year and ever since then we've had weird chemistry that i don't have with anyone else... like we would go to movie parties ( yeah were "good kids", no drinking or smoking) and she would cuddle up against me, i would put my arm around her and idk just everything seemed right when were together. we could talk about anything and i get the feeling i've known her my whole life. But a Big conflice weve had is that her boyfriends don't trust me cus were so close and everyone in school think we have a great big secret relationship but we dont.

so a few months ago i think i've come to realize that im in love with her. but she has recently broken up with a boyfriend. So this new years eve she had a party and of course i was invited. i hadn't seen her over the winter break at all and i planned to tell her how i felt. So at the party we chilled in the hot tub and shot fire works off, just fun stuff and as we watched the ball drop, we were sitting on the couch together with my arm around her... and she kept looking up at me like she wanted something and i could tell she wanted a New Years Eve Kiss, but i wasn't 100% sure and we have never kissed before... anyway i gave her a look like i wanted it too but then she wrote in her phone " im not sure" and she let me she it.

afterwards we ended up in her room alone and i told her " hey X so these past few months ive realized that I'm falling in love with you". She stood there with a shocked look on her face. "are you kidding me?" she said. "no I'm not and...." we were interupted by one of her friends walking in and it didn't take too long for her to figure out what was happening. so i leave the room and continue with the party as best i can. X and i meet up later and finally talk about what were gonna do. " When did you start feeling like this?" she asked " a few months ago" i said... then she said the most shocking thing i have heard ever. " well... i too have strong feeling for you... i based this party all round you coming and us two maybe getting together but i was not sure if you liked me as much as i do you... but now I'm confused on what to do..."

ok so we chat for a while and it just stuff that like all this time why have we been such good friends and junk.. but in the end it seems she realizes that i love her and want her to be mine but she doesn't want another bad relationship in high school and that our friendship is way to valuable to just chance that one bad relationship will ruin it... that was the new years night and earlier today i thought id pay her a visit at work... she works at a hometown coffee shop that isn't busy at all during the day. so i show up and use a good opener that me and sailor found. her face instantly shines as i walk in. and sitting there for 2 hours or so just flirting and talking about everything thats happening and more... i leave with a hug....

sorry I'm very nervous cus i think she might be the one. and i don't want to screw this up like fellas i need help.... right now i'm trying to play a lil hard to get and i think she might be doin the same but our whole conversation at the coffee shop i kept her speechless like in a good way. i made her realize that im the prize and shes gona need to chase me to win me
1. At this point, don't try to game her with what you believe is "game". You're all over the place without any plans at all and I'm quite sure that you don't really understand some basic concepts. Good news is that you don't need any of it. Settle down. She likes you.

2. Getting "story" ideas from this forum to keep up a conversation is OK . . . but really, I bet you have plenty REAL LIFE things to chat about with her.

3. Most importantly, kiss her soon. You can't leave girls to THINK their way through these emotional situations. You "told her" that you LOVE her but you haven't demonstrated anything yet. The longer you wait, the more likely it is that both of you will psych yourselves out of it.

Author:  Trance- [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:38 am ]
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Thanks much bud :)

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