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Author:  paladien [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  can anyone relate to my problem ?
guys


when i go out in my town, everyone knows each other somehow

I have turned into the weird guy, i dont know what they think i just see them ignoring me

i cant really describe my problem, but i hope someone knows what i mean

When i meet new people, i can escalate pretty rapidly i can build report and make friends real good
no sexual tension though

then i neglect them, for some reason
and when i got time i come back to them, and try to be nice
but they usually dont like me anymore, they actually kinda hate me :p thats what it feels like

my personality is humble and kind, also a little bit shy
at first everyone thinks im sweet
after a while everyone thinks im weird

i also have huge trouble getting in, im usually the lonely outsider

PS: I always get the low value girls (the fat ones) but i stay kind, today i passed one of them in town and i smiled at her like i meant it. to not be rude, and to appreciate what ive got. cuz she is ioing me, unlike the HB's


help.
Author:  paladien [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 8:42 pm ]
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i think im gonna cry

okay, so there's this situation:
sarged this hb8 last year, got her email talked to her on msn
did well, then i asked her some shit about a girl i needed help
she totally helped me, and i thanked her for it. then she was like oh you can ask me anything ;)

i backed off for some reason, didnt know what to do (shy maybe)

we started to talk less

after a while she deleted me from her contacts list on msn.

I mailed her, asked why she deleted me from msn. i got some kind of answer that she accidentilly deleted me
but she never added me again.

So i can see her online still (she did not block me), and now after 6 months i see in her msn I GOT A VIRUS, IM SORRY
as a computerguy i know how to get rid of it, i opened with hey, happy new year
download this, run a scan, and your virus will be gone
bye
then she was like, what scan ?
i explained to her, she had to download the software and scan her computer
then after like 10 minutes of none convo
i asked her does it work?
she replied yeah its busy

her: it needs to scan a lot of stuff hahah
me: oh it will find something
her: it hasnt find something yet
me: oh i thinks it will
me: we will see
her: exactly

*Bang* she went offline again, without thank you

what went wrong :? she is like an enigma to me!!
It wont get me anywhere
it feels like she is ice, i get a really bad feeling from her
but she is soo hot!
and i used to have a good time with her on msn :?
whats wrong
and also, she is not coming online :?
she is not playing, she is just hating me or something. like all the others.
Author:  Magdiel [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 9:03 pm ]
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dude you need to stop giving a damn and start living. yeah you should probably stop caring, theres been girls who I thought hated me ha and there the ones who use to open me haha, you see nomatter where you are you cant just automatically assume that people dont like you or think your weird.

As for the HB8 she probably feels anoyed by you, if you stop talking to her for a really long time shes going to eventually miss you so I would suggest to just stop talking with her then in about a month or two talk to her for a little bit (If you still even think about her) anyways good luck bro!
Author:  keruli [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:26 pm ]
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right , thinking evryone hates u for no appearant reason ... is NOT gonna help ya.

U sarged her and got "some" succes there, good for u ! It means u arnt totally incapable of making a connection.

After a while the interaction faded, and she lost interest ... and deleted u ( at this point she has made up her mind, ur not the one ) in computer terms this is a "game over" .

This is what u do : Get over it , go out and sarge again , learn from your mistakes. I know u are probably thinking "but if i just can get this one girl all my problems will fade away" ... they wont. U should focus on communication skills and self confidence. ( and dont care howmany icecold bitches u crossed, fatal mistakes u make, or howmany times u will get rejected)

the total skillset u will aquire is much more valuable than that 1 girl.

Keruli
Author:  paladien [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:07 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
the total skillset u will aquire is much more valuable than that 1 girl.
thanks ! i needed this so much ! i just like 30 minutes ago went talking to another girl just as hot and guess what :D i just set a date
i know im not there yet, but hell am i on my way :p
thank you so much !
:D:D:D:D
im fucking happy
i thought i lost my mojo :D :D
yes !
Author:  NYSFINEST01 [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:26 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
the total skillset u will aquire is much more valuable than that 1 girl.
thanks ! i needed this so much ! i just like 30 minutes ago went talking to another girl just as hot and guess what :D i just set a date
i know im not there yet, but hell am i on my way :p
thank you so much !
:D:D:D:D
im fucking happy
i thought i lost my mojo :D :D
yes !
Do me a favor? When you talk to these women, talk to them like your a smooth asshole. I know it sounds mean but the last thing a girl wants is a good boy who can fix her computer. Believe me b/f I found this stuff (2-3 months ago) I was only getting girls b/c of my looks but the conversation was bland. What I've come to learn is it's not what you say to these women, but more of the confidence and how good you feel about yourself when you do speak to them. Another thing boss (I used to be in your position, being upset over girls I can't have) don't you ever ever ever feel the urge to cry for some girl, especially b/c she wasn't your girlfirend or wife, but even then you don't want a girl to see you cry. That's why were called men. You are your life, if your not the badest walking mofo to yourself in your mind, nothing anybody does or says will make you feel better about yourself.
Remeber PUA 4 Life
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Author:  Charlie0 [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 10:53 am ]
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Shyness is rarely interpreted as shyness. It is seen as arrogance.

A prime example would be a date I was on about 7 hours ago. I was meeting friends for dinner, and invited a girl I had met to tag along. She brought her friend, who *I* knew was shy as hell.

When they left, all of my friends thought the shy girl was a stuck up bitch, when I personally knew that not to be true.



Don't be the shy guy everyone thinks of as a stuck up prick.
Author:  jose di maria [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:00 pm ]
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make a blood y effort to be social. don't make excuses, just do it.
Author:  belondon [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:26 pm ]
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take a good look at yourself, and ask why the world seems to be in agreement why you should be ignored.

compare yourself against the mainstream, your difference from the mainstream say something about you.

then ask yourself, are you happy making these statements. if yes, cool dont change them, but if not, figure out what statements you do wanna stay.

I am not mainstream, but I'm not a million miles from it. Some guys have got good game in the whole gothic scene, cool. me, im chasing hb10s in the main clubs so i need to be aware of the mainstream.

once youve changed your outside, look into your inner game.

inner game is so much harder. to put right... but basically stop assuming how the world sees you, and read everything in this forum. also get into "inner game" by david d'angelo... very nice.
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