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| Author: | Royelblu [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Having female roommates |
So, here's the scoop. This girl wants to move in with me. She was friends with an ex of mine. While i was dating said ex, she flirted with me constantly and we even made out a few times despite, or perhaps because of, the fact that she had a boyfriend in the army. Now she wants to move in with me, and she told me things are "complicated" with her army boyfriend. I have played it prudent for now, saying that when she gets into town we'll talk about her moving in. My questions are as follows: 1) Can someone explain to me the concept of boyfriend destroyers? I would think in this situation it would be to subtly lead her to the realization that its the distance between them that is making her relationship complicated, and that she should take advantage of my proximity to her physically. 2) I offered her the option of sharing the master bedroom with me, or converting the living room to hers, and she said "wherever it makes more sense to put me". I was thinking of setting her up in the living room and telling her i'll have an open door policy so if she gets afraid of the dark of something she can come sleep with me. How else can i subtly attract her to my room without actually asking "well, do you want to share my room with me?". If i just tell her to share my room with me, i can't mess up the seduction or else i'll have a friendly obstacle in my room for future dates. 3) If the connection with her boyfriend is strong, but she is still into getting physical with me, how can i make her comfortable with me bringing home other women in preparation for a threesome without making her jealous. Any advice would be great. She's moving in on January 10. I'll update this as i make things happen. |
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| Author: | Epicurus [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 9:08 am ] |
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hmmm.... looks like you've got a bit of homework to do... depending on the outcome - I assume that you want to bed her and openly share her with other females? 1. Be VERY CLEAR with her about the other females. There should be no misunderstanding about exclusivity. 2. Pre-screen her for bisexuality (I'm not sure how you'd do it - if you do let me know how?) 3. After doing points 1 & 2 you'll have a better idea whether your bed or the sofa is a better option. Good luck - this could be a lot of fun depending on how you manage it! |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 11:47 am ] |
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This thread is barely relevant to the forum section you posted it in (Relationships) because you're not in a LTR. I'll let this one stay because it's ALMOST relevant but next time be more conscious of where you post what. If I were you I would have posted this in the Newbie Questions section. I'm letting you off with an unofficial warning.  Carry on. 
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| Author: | Royelblu [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 11:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Thanks Chief |
I didn't think this is a newbie question though... Not many newbs will be worrying about harem management. I have prescreened for bisexuality. That was what got my initial interest. I find the best way to screen for this is to treat her like you already know she is bi and calibrate her responses. Ask her how far she's been with a woman. If she launches into a detailed story, or tentatively says she has never been in a threesome, it's on. The first step is going to be overcoming any LMR regarding her boyfriend while maintaining that she shouldn't leave him for me. |
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