I don't really have any problems at all to speak to girls, I often get a lot of interest right away using my natural surprise tactics .p (i'm a bit stoned, but i guess that should make sense).
Yesterday, I passed by a really beautiful girl and stopped immediately to turn around and talk to her. Hesitation will only make one succumbs to fear of rejection I've learned.
I said that I really felt like talking to her, and asked how old she were after getting her name. I thought she were 23 and wanted to neg her saying that she looked 26 and it still was to early to go home at 2am, she said she was 29 and had a 4yrs old daughter
i did this:
convinced her that it wasn't a joke and made her want me till she finally begged me with the puppy eyes (don't remember the pua name for it) to kiss her. after a bit i did, i kissed a milf kinda happy about that.
on our way to her buss i ran out of interesting and intriguing things to say (since I've never learned any routines) and happened to slip in to a normal conversation between friends, it surely did give her a better impression of me but at the same time made her cool down and started to remember the age difference (I'm 19 btw), i didn't want to try to convince her to hard and instead tried to get more physical, stroking her hand and using body lang. but it was to late. The interest was blown away of her face and she said she had a good time but that i should go home.
My voice isn't very interesting and I'm not naturally very talk active, so i often fail at keeping it up long enough to get in a bed.
How do i turn over the talk in to a sexy and hot conversation without being vulgar? any penis vagina and adult words seems to be not allowed for me to say so early on, swedish people are very cold, just like the weather. I don't have the patience and skills to keep dating. I've never done that.
How do i learn the procedures of getting a girl comfortable and open to talk about anything fast (½-1h)?, i'm very open so I don't know where to draw the line.
And how do I keep things sexual after a kiss and some neck kissing, 30 minutes home
? (tired and just wrote without really thinking and used a bad english, so plz excuse me)