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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 7:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | converting female friend to FB |
ok so before everyone goes right for the jugular, I realize that this is a delicate situation and in most cases trying to turn a close female friend into a FB arrangement is not a good idea. Basically this girl and I have been close for about a year or so. I'd get IOI's from her on and off but basically I think she's always felt I was out of her league or something. I guess I'd give her a 5 or a 6 on the attractive scale. maybe lower without make-up. anyways after I broke up with my girlfriend recently, we've gotten on the topic of sex alot. my ex was not great in bed and I've never been outright told that I'm good so this has made me a little insecure. so our conversations tend to take on a sexual nature much more often. then one night she started telling me about one of her male friends who made a move on her and she says that situation always seems to happen to her and wonders if its something about her. wasnt sure how to read that. also she told me she is good at giving head..IOI? anyways I was thinking of wording it like she's doing me a favour by letting me practice sex with her. It would suck if this wrecked our friendship but I've gotten into taking alot more risks these days. could this work? any ways to do damage control if she declines? |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 10:40 pm ] |
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Aaaaaaaaaaaargh! Man, no no no! Get those thoughts out of your mind right now! I am not talking about not converting your friend, Im talking about her "helping" you "practice" sex with her! That would be a very big (BIG) mistake! You would surely hurt her feelings, you would be arrogant and an asshole. Sex is something two people share for mutual pleasure. It is not a business arrangement! This would surely damage your friendship! Establish a meeting pattern (movie club, tennis lessons, walks, whatever) meet with her on a regular basis. Start kino! Lend her your shirt or sweater if she has to go home when it is cold (this is great, alwys worked for me, the girl has an item around that reminds her of your smell, great!). Establish your own private jokes, your own reality, our world conspiracy. Show a weakness, share something intimate, trust her. Nothing builds trust like sharing trust. Get her to laugh, tease her, force IOIs from others (jelousy plotline). Force IOIs from her in front of her friends. As soon as her friends tell her that they think something is going on, you are practically there. Good luck |
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| Author: | Maestr0UK [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 11:42 pm ] |
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I have to agree with Ezoghoul above 100 percent, Dont recommend practising sex with her hahah that will def not work out and i am talking about from experince but Good Luck anyway bud. |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 11:45 pm ] |
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sweet. k I've done all those things lately cause I've been preping for this. I started sharing intimate stuff with her about a month ago. We have created our own reality when we are together and share plenty of inside jokes. a few weeks ago she introduced me to some of her friends and they apparently thought we were dating. every time we watch a movie together her roommate does the whole "dont mind me" thing. we watch movies together all the time but no kino. last night i tried to initiate kino by inviting her to cuddle with me on the couch but she figured i meant like feet cuddling (??). anyways id just feel bad if I made a move on her without being brutally honest, it would have more potential to blow up in my face if things dont work out. im thinking the best thing to do might be to go out drinking with her some night and hook up with her then because drunken hook-ups are often more excusable. thanx for getting me to steer clear of the whole "practice" thing. I was blind to the potential for it to insult her. I just always found that she's a very helpful person and would probably comply.. |
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