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Author:  Watermelon [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm only doing this stuff when with people who know me
Ok, you see, the problem is that when I am alone, I never do this all pickup stuff and acting cool. I mean, I still have alpha male body language but I am not that talkative, social, don't open, etc...when I am with people I know, I know that I MUST leave a good impression, so I am cool, chat with girls, a little bit bad boy attitude, am very confident, feel like I would be alpha. It's like I am just trying to be impressive to these people so they see me as a cool guy. How do I become the same as I am with them but when I am on my own?
Author:  Magdiel [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 4:11 pm ]
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If theyre your friends to begin with why do you waste your game on them? If theyre your friends they obviously liked the real you, whats going to happen when something happens and you loose your frame?
think about it.

anyways I would probably suggest anchoring that confidence that you get with them and then using that out in the field but shit do whatever you want.
Author:  Overseer86 [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 6:20 pm ]
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I have the same problem :S
Author:  d3sign3r [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 7:05 pm ]
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if I understand you correctly then you in a simular situation that I was.

For years I simply could not get the courage to open, so I would learn PU and apply the lessons I learned to my socil circle, and that got me a couple of relationships.

But ultimately, you want to be like this with people outside your social group then you have to start from scratch, you have to learn to open and go from there.
Author:  Watermelon [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 11:31 pm ]
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They're not friends just collegues, mates, fellow peers, buddies. I have only 1 friend and he knows me from A-Z. He will know all my intentions but will never do anything to mess up my reputation, but if I look like a loser to these guys they might not think of me as an alpha male and it will be harder to appeal to them later although they will still be my pals of course. Just want to make an illusion of a cool person. I don't have my real persona, I just change colors whenever I feel like it.

You also misunderstood. I am like this outside social group but when there are people from my social group so I can show them that I am cool with other people outside my social group :D Something like that.
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